So I had girl over last night. Been on one quick date before, kissed. This was a second date, movie night at mine, to which she agreed easily.

Second date basically, went with kissing, cuddling, rubbing, basically everything but sex. She had LMR saying she doesn't know me that well etc etc. Standard BS. I stopped and started a few times, every time I stopped she would try to make me cuddle etc with her again. I was getting a bit annoyed at that point...

Anyway, the bottom line is we haven't had sex. Watched a movie for a bit, it was pretty late and she left.

My question is - from your experience guys, do you go no contact and see if she initiates or you initiate yourself?

Personally, I feel like I can't be bothered. She was ok (seem to have some insecurities), but I literally don't have time in my life to deal with this BS. Whole evening wasted, could have done something more productive or even hang out with friends.

I thought unless she re-initiates fully I will just next this whole thing.