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Am I really that ugly

January 16, 2020
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Hi, this is not a troll post,

I've been reading the Red Pill and been working on myself for quite some time know but I really wanted to get something off my chest. I uploaded a photo to photofeeler to see how it would score as a picture for tinder and the scores were just soo damn bad.

This is quite a good picture i took of myself I.M.O. But considering those scores am I just ugly? I'm not insecure about this I just want to know wether i'm ugly and should live with that or is it not that bad. I just want an honest opinion from you guys, thanks

Edit: Thanks for all the responses guys. I'm gonna put more effort into my hair and clothing and going into a bodyfat cut soon. Cheers

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Title Am I really that ugly
Author RPOpenUp
Upvotes 4
Comments 60
Date January 16, 2020 12:22 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
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[–]McVaghunter26 points27 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

You're a fuckable man, no homo, but I'd swipe left. It's just that you look boring; boring clothes, boring haircut and the picture does not show off anything interesting, no fun activities, no amazing background that shows your wild lifestyle... You're just standing there with your good boy haircut wearing drab colored clothes, like a shy man who's avoiding attention.

I'd lose a little of fat, get a modern faded haircut, wear something cool like the clothes you see chads wearing in instagram, take some candid pictures while doing some fun activities, at a pool/beach, with animals, playing a game or at a party with friends. Smile.

[–]RPOpenUp[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for the advice Uncle McVagHunter

[–]1Red_Pill_Brotherhood2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This.

[–]Apfeltee16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Nah you have potential. I’d say grow a beard and get a better haircut man. Dress better and there you go.

[–]ChellsBells170 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's what I was gonna say. Total Beta look going on there, suppose that's fine if you're looking for some oneitis and have no interest in spinning plates. But if you want the ladies to fight over you then you're going to need a nice, bushy beard.

[–]vondoom90025 points26 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

No you look normal just not stylish. Dress better - you dress like you're about to smash my windows and run off.

[–]RPOpenUp[S] 3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

God damn how did you find out i was planning to do that

[–]vondoom9008 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Putting those gloves on like ' ain't finding my fingerprints on that brick. '

[–]vondoom9000 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I think you just need a smarter style. Light beard and you're sorted. Just that will raise your smv imo. You're fortunate that's not much effort.

[–]RPOpenUp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Am gonna try that, Is it a problem tho that it's not one colour?

I mean like it's not full on my cheeks and i got some withe and orange hairs in there

[–]PrettyBarbiePerson8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I would delete post soon once you’ve gotten answers you want

[–]RPOpenUp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You're right

[–]ishcapital6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I think you can rock a beard

[–]RPOpenUp[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

What kind of beard are you refering to? How Long?

My beard has some orange and white hairs and is not that full on my cheeks, should I still consider that?

[–]dominicthetiger2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

yeah order some minoxydil, grow out your beard and hair, get a good haircut and you should be fine. Beards are uderrated in my oppinion.

[–]PrettyBarbiePerson5 points6 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

I don’t think you’ll ever be in a position to be xXxPussySlayerxXx but you aren’t ugly ugly

Your hair is gay

Get more tan

Lose weight

Look kinda feminine

[–]RPOpenUp[S] 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

Good thing. What can I do to fix the feminine part?

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[–]RPOpenUp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm not chubby at all

[–]RPOpenUp[S] -1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Is it because i don't really have sharp bone structure? cuz of somewhat high bodyfat?

[–]PrettyBarbiePerson6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Yes lift weights eat healthy, that’s exactly why

[–]RPOpenUp[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Guess I'm on the good road then

[–]PrettyBarbiePerson2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, maybe grow your hair out a bit and put it up

Don’t wash your hair with shampoo and conditioner every day

[–]ElaborateTaleofWoe4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The flushed cheeks aren’t a super good look unless you have low body fat. On a thin guy it reads bracing, on a bigger/average guy it reads “fat guy overexerting and out of breath” OR alcoholic (red and puffy).

But mostly, the picture looks excessively thought out for what it is. And your face even reads that’s you’re embarrassed about taking such a serious selfie. Get dressed up a little nicer, go out with other people, and ask them to take action shots of you that day or night. Then pick the best. OR get dressed up, go to a good background, and fully commit to a posed shot.

Posed but trying to look like a casual action shot looks lame and try-hard.

This isn’t remotely my sub I just lurk, but it seemed like you dudes were missing the point on what makes it bad.

Edit: IMO, in an ideal pic for you, you should be smiling. Work on a devilish smile not a giddy weak one. I think it’s extremely hard to pull off a serious face without a serious brow and jawline. Work with what you’ve got. If this is against some other TRP ideas, I defer.

Also, no, you aren’t ugly. But your looks are neutral so you need to convey some personality in your pic and bio.

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[–]RPOpenUp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good one, didn't think of it this way.

[–]Musicgoon2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Look, there's absolutely Zero things wrong with your looks. You need to work on your frame. It sounds like you're lacking confidence. Back several years ago I was really fat. I had great confidence and my game was tight. I pulled hot chicks and got laid a ton. Now my stamina sucked because I would get winded fucking, but that's not the point.

Your looks aren't the problem. Your looking for outward validation instead of being inwardly validating.

[–]CainPrice2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

You look fine. Judging by the receding hair at your temples, you’re mid 30s but dressing like you’re 22, with the fashionable I just hit puberty stubble and the baby face.

A pic of you in a suit (fitted so that a nice body is evident from the pic but not overtly shown off), either clean shaven or with a neat beard would slay in the 30 something divorced crowd.

[–]RPOpenUp[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

hehe wat. I indeed have receding hair which happened over the last months. Just turned 21 actually.

[–]CainPrice1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I’d have guessed 32ish. Anyway, your face is fine, but your clothes and haircut aren’t stylish. Not terrible, just plain. Especially your outfit. The bulky coat makes women suspicious you’re hiding a bad body. When a picture is all they have to go on, ratings can be very critical.

[–]RPOpenUp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You are right. It's plain and boring. Coat also looks waay to bulky on me. Thanks Mr Price

[–]ChellsBells170 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, daaaamn..... I though early 30s too. Shave your head and grow a tidy beard. Would be much sexier.

[–]patchwhole1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Average I’d say

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dress better and lose the baby fat. You have a nice jaw under the fat on your chin. Tbh just get lean and you can jump from a 5 to an 8 in looks

[–]Coolguy16991 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You look good man really.

[–]i-am-the-prize1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

you're not ugly at all. BUT:

  1. you need to lose some bodyfat
  2. your face is flushed/childlike, some chicks don't like that, some will; consider a beard (and lower BF will chisel your face)
  3. I assume this is not your normal "let's meet chicks outfit" as you look homeless.
  4. you're not tiny, so start lifting so you maintain your shoulders and grow them while you get rid of that belly you're hiding with that jacket.

[–]RStonePT1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Your aesthetics are fine, your pictures suck though.

Looking at this, what can you tell about the person there? Whats the story? It's milquetoast... I wouldn't know if this was a stock photo inside a picture frame at a store or an algorithm.

This is most likely why random people on the internet were downvoting it so harshly, it's just boring.

Go check out some photo essays to see what you can do in terms of framing and composition, add a few elements of interest in there and it looks way different

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Fade haircut, clean shaven, 12% BF.

[–]RPOpenUp[S] -1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Whats up with that?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

What U mean

[–]RPOpenUp[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

What do you mean with your comment?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Make those improvements.

[–]2SirKolbath1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]MarkJohnPaul1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Def grow your beard out and def buzz your hair because with that style you got now you look like an altar server

[–]RPOpenUp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

How does everyone in here guess my profession correctly

[–]Besee270 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Lose fat

All there is to it

You look bout 25+% body fat

[–]RPOpenUp[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Really? If i flex abs are visible, so I highly, highly doubt that

[–]Besee271 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Your face looks bloated

Maybe it could be high estrogen causing water retention? Maybe get ur estrogen levels checked

[–]Former-Rabbit0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nah, dude, you're fine. You look healthy and masculine. I think there's potential for some serious pussy slaying there.

Probably could stand to lose some weight and face fat alongside that though.

[–]vullnet1230 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nope. Most people aren't ugly, and if you dress well and groom better you'll be fine.

[–]1Red_Pill_Brotherhood0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Youre a decent looking guy. I would change your style, grow out facial hair, change haircut a bit, and lose some bodyfat(will lean out your face). Focus on taking more interesting(and more edgy) photos. That photo makes you look like a "nice guy" imo.

[–]BusterVadge0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You look alright to me... The outdoorsy type. Is that the types of chicks in your area? If not then adopt a more urban stylish look.

[–]watchguy450 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Get down to 10-12% bf . Get a modern haircut. Learn how to dress .

You will be fine.

[–]hoopingblob0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You look british

Grow a victorian style beard (Van dyke but the chin part shorter)

Wear a coat with fur (black or brown)

Get a buzz cut

Wear a Turtleneck

Washed out jeans and elegant boots

Leather gloves or no gloves at all

[–]HurricaneHugues0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You don't look ugly at all. The photo is just bland. There's nothing going on. The background is weak. It's the photo, not you.

[–]Wildfire480 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Right now looks like main good part is that the background of the photo is blurred.

What score did you get on Photofeeler? I've been there and know how you feel, but a lot of good advice given to you already.

I got similar advice too, and made adjustments to boost my scores. My old photos I scored 3.5-5.5, but I was able to get a few new photos to bump up the score to 6.5-8.5 for F29< voters. My results on Tinder increased too, so just know there's definitely ways to improve.

[–]Chadster1130 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lose weight

[–]theUnBannableHulk0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Bro go to South America, you’ll realize how good looking you are. These bitches can’t appreciate average to good looking men until you grovel.

Seriously, guy that looks like you shouldn’t even be asking that question.

If they downvoted this it’s becaus you look aggressive and bitches will downvote aggressive motherfuckers online and download their dick in their mouth offline. SRs.

Fuck these bitches man, got a guy like you questioning himself 🤦🏼‍♂️

Srs go to South America for 2 weeks and your world will change.

[–]RPOpenUp[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't understand, I'm from europe

[–]theUnBannableHulk0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Doesn’t matter. Still go to South America.

You’re focusing on shit that wouldn’t even be an issue if you lived in a NORMAL society.

North America/UK/Aus/Scandinavia/Europe whatever they’re all almost universally cucked except some parts. The amount of just straight up Abnormal bitches in these countries is past tipping point.

When you’ve lived all your life in an abnormal society you will think it’s normal. That’s why gotta travel

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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