To all and sundry -

Like many of you I was raised with an effeminate father, although my mother was a very tough lady who picked up his inspirational duties. She was firm, but despite all this there was a desire by her to not have to be the one to tell me to be a man which could never be fully translated.

I've read No More Mr. Nice Guy, a great start. I was interested in some other core texts which would specifically help me re-learn lessons that should've come from a father.