I keep getting comments from girls I go on dates with around the lines: "Yeah, you're not a fuckboy that's why I decided to go on a date with you."

One girl mentioned in her college days she would see a dude she knew she shouldn't deal with and caused her danger alarms to go off, but went for it anyways. But with me, she saw me as safe, secure, and had my head on straight. The opposite of danger.

Another girl mentioned how she takes pride in her ability to filter out fuckboys and how she's dumbfounded at how I look so good and not act like a fuckboy.

So like...is this a compliment? An insult? A backhanded compliment? I never know how to respond when a woman tells me this.

Is it a reminder of the cold, hard truth: women want to enjoy their prime and to start settling down after they've had their fun?

Any advice or feedback or anything because this issue has me confused and lowkey heated.

Thanks.