Anyone else get burnt out after many rejections?

chazthundergut · 2018-10-06T17:49:21+00:00

I don't get "burnt out" because I don't go out with the intention of getting chicks.

I know it is an unpopular opinion, but I think cold-approaching women is a big waste of time and counterproductive (unless you're afraid of rejection then you need to toughen up your leather and should approach everyone)

My preferred method is to be busy with my life and chasing my own happiness.

As I do this, I come into contact with chicks. If they give me IOIs or I am interested, I just go up and say hey. If she responds positively I hold out my hand and smile and introduce myself.

Chat for a minute, then tell her I gotta go but I'd like to go out for a drink sometime (if she is receptive). If she says yes grab the number. If not great go after your life.

What's to get burnt out on?

QawL · 2018-10-06T17:44:22+00:00

Nope. It's more like getting numb to rejection. The person who is not rejected is the person never even tried.

But what came to my mind as I was writing is that you can track down your approaches. Thinking about the approaches before you sleep. Maybe trying out new styles, see what works what doesn't... to improve the quality of the approaches.

Title	Anyone else get burnt out after many rejections?
Author	setsuna0
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	October 6, 2018 7:44 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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