I've been told my whole life (by blue pilled society) that it's ok to be shy and reserved, but after swallowing the red pill, I think it's a pretty big disaster. Women rely on social status and social proof to select mates, and the shy/reserved guy is pretty much rock bottom when it comes to that. Whenever I speak to women, I always try not to let on that I basically have no friends and prefer my own company. While they might say they don't mind it, their hypergamy and base biological instincts are telling them the complete opposite. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a pushover, but I prefer to hide in the background in social settings and I prefer my own company.
For women, it doesn't seem to be a big issue if you're shy. You're going to get multiple men approaching you and you're never short of male attention and possible boyfriends. However, for men it seems to be a complete disaster if you are like this. Is it actually a disaster, or am I imagining things? I worry that I'm going to end up a childless loner with no partner (I'm not a virgin by the way, but the girls who have slept with me have been either virgins or ugly drunk girls).
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