I’ve known this chick for about four years now, and just decided “make a move, and then move on”. I wasn’t quite prepared for that response just now. For reference, I just texted “crazy idea; why don’t you and I go out for dinner this week?”

I’m thinking to maybe reply “Make you a deal; if either one of us isn’t feeling it, we’ll hit the reset button”

What do you think? Other suggestions?