Hit it off with a girl, it was mutual she dropped the L word. I felt the same, but something is fucking off.

She basically wont label me as her "boyfriend" since she thinks it takes "time to commit to someone" (Red flag) I dont really care TOO much but the "I love you's" actually mean something to me.

I have been out of town on businiess the last week but while I was gone a "friend from out of town" came up and she has been unreachable except for a few minutes every day.

We had a 23:00 daily call where we used to go touch base and talk all couply. She hasnt picked up for a single one of these while her "friend" has been in town.

Yeah I see the writing on the wall. She is still on the CC and I am just the reliable dick on the side while her "friend" which I suspect is the last LTR she had is in town.

I dont like being side dick. I am satisfied being just AF and while I have not given her any indicators that I am a good provider, I sure as shit will not be a BB.

So I am considering drawing back emotionally, I am back in town she is supposed to come over tonight after she drops "her friend off at the airport" I am heading out to a new event to meet some new folks play some dodgeball and have a chill sunday.

I am going to be unreachable because I will be "out" but fuck man who uses the L bombs like that?

I dunno. I think I should soft next until I can cure some one-itis then let her be a plate. She is obviously not LTR material or even GF material.

TLDR Should I plate a girl I have feelings for who is obviously fucking around on me? Or is it better to just next it?