The group of friends I hang out with are very indecisive. Whenever deciding what to watch, do etc nothing is ever certain. It's always "maybe we could" or " maybe something like this" never "Hey, lets watch this". This leads to many situations where when deciding what to do there will be this awkward back and fourth of indecision for 10-15 minutes.

Usually it gets to a point where the indecision starts annoying me, so I'll take over and firmly direct the group towards some activity.

The problem here is I have this weird aversion to "taking command" because when I'm doing it, although I am polite but firm I still feel like I am "oppressing" the others or "dominating and controlling" them which I view as "unfair".

Is this a self mental block keeping me from embracing any true leadership qualities I may have?