TL;DR: the daily conversation with FWB's gives me more sexual desire about them, whereas with plates I just fill them until I'm done and it doesn't feel that great. Is that supposed to be like that?

I recently lost 2 FWB's at once. Before you say oneitis (twoitis?), I don't miss any of them specifically. But I kinda miss having someone saying good morning and asking about my day. This is weird. Do you maintain such contact with your FWB's?

I'm spinning 3 plates, but as we don't have much in common I barely talk to them (logistics only) and honestly I don't give two shits about their lives. Also I'm gonna be honest here... sex with them feels meaningless. With my FWB's we would be teasing each other, they were jealous of me, so it had more fire. But with plates... Why the fuck would I care if a plate is jealous? It just doesn't mean anything to me.

Apart from lifting and pursuing my career goals, I still feel like now there's this gap of social "romantic" interaction. It makes me feel... old.