Best way to prolong how long a plate spins?

MrNeverDryDick · 2021-06-21T02:23:11+00:00

Some dude on the main sub like a year ago brought up just sending a funny gif or emoji or some shit. Super low investment and it seems to keep shit spinning a bit longer for me.

But eventually a chick doesn’t wanna feel like a booty call. Well most I guess. So even if you are fucking her good she will bounce if she doesn’t feel like any commitment from you is realistic. Or maybe you’re not fucking her good enough. I don’t know I just don’t really care. They were a plate for a reason, not LTR material, they break. C’est la vie

CochinoChingon · 2021-06-21T02:04:19+00:00

I hadn't thought of this, how to keep plates around longer. I just "do" but I had to break it down for a friend recently.

What I do is establish a pattern of communication. Messaging for logistics AND I message 2-3x a week

"do anything fun this past weekend?" (If I didn't see them) or "how's your week going" on Monday or Tuesday.

"Got anything fun planned after work?" On Weds or Thurs

"Got anything fun planned for the weekend" early Friday

Not all plates are sitting around waiting/hoping to see you. In some cases they are, in a few others they keep themselves busy with their girlfriends. More often than not, they're looking for another alpha that'll spend more time with them.

What other things are you doing? Are you making plans with a plate and cancel/flake last minute to go out with the boys? Or on a date with a new plate?

Are your other messages besides logistics just "hey?"

If you want to keep plates around more than a month, you gotta invest at least an hour a week into them. Give them the idea/hope that you're willing to settle down (just don't say that unless you really mean it)

YoungAussiePrince · 2021-06-21T04:39:43+00:00

Dont try to prolong it, just dont go down on the ship when it’s sinking

Yashugan00 · 2021-06-21T10:05:36+00:00

The best way to hold on is with an open hand. They have to want it, you can't make them. Outcome independence. You can tweak it by knowing when she's doing a "comfort" vs shit test, and pass it.

Just be honest. She won't resent you for that. You told her exactly what the deal is and you didn't string her along. If she stuck around it was her decision. They like the challenge anyway.

MattyAnon · 2021-06-22T02:00:05+00:00

What can I do to prolong how long a plate spins?

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Title	Best way to prolong how long a plate spins?
Author	AnonBro34333
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Comments	11
Date	June 21, 2021 1:44 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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