Beta Friends Are Getting Agressive And Cockblocking

October 29, 2019
62 upvotes

One of my beta friends has been rejected by a girl and the girl is still on our social circle.Recently this girl started to show me iois very aggressively holding my hand,hugging,rubbing her leg to mine etc.

My poor friend which I tried to help him get this girl is such a beta that it seems like he is trying it again.

Here is this problem ; I did NOT escalate,I did NOT kino and I have NEVER called or texted this girl or even asked to hang out,I did NOT hang out with this girl without the presence of my friends.

But my friends started to behave very passive aggressively towards me and I can smell cockblocking and mateguarding(for at least 2 weeks).Few minutes ago other friend said "You and this girl was too close yesterday,does "beta friend" know ?" They are trying to make me look like the asshole.

I replied "I talked with him about this and its between me and him"

I have taken this as an insult and currently feel like my heads gonna explode.If they show any more signs of hostility I'm gonna fuck that bitch just to flex.

Why does this happen and how can I get out of this situation with minimal losses ? Also should I cut these friends off ?

Edit : she's lying next to me now idk if I'm gonna fuck

Edit 2 : common friend literally sat next to us until she got up and left,there is a organized effort to cockblock however she calls me to hangout and shit

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Title Beta Friends Are Getting Agressive And Cockblocking
Author throwaway4643366577
Upvotes 62
Comments 55
Date October 29, 2019 1:14 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]HumanSockPuppet 126 points127 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Man Law goes like this: if you and your bruh are into the same chick, then the one who knew her first gets priority, and the second wingmans him.

If he misses or flubs his shot, or if the chick is clearly more interested in #2 during the attempt, then #2 becomes the primary and #1 wingmans him.

What you don't do ever is cockblock a bro for the sake of a bitch. They're not worth it.

If your bro(s) are blocking you, sit down and have a talk about priorities. If they're not on the same page, part ways peacefully.

[–]This-Point-Forward 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Really enjoy this. Realistically they should recognize that having good homies is harder then finding another girl. If they don’t realize this it’s on them.

[–]RX0II 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Man law also says she should be spit roasted.

[–]7inchnofapper 33 points34 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Lol u got the right idea. Fuck her just to flex. If I were u, I wouldnt take those faggots seriously, or hang out with them.

[–]throwaway4643366577[S] 14 points15 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Problem is,we stay at the same place.Im looking for a opportunity to leave them asap.I wouldnt rent a flat with these guys If i knew they were such betas.

Flexing seems to be the right idea but I dont wanna be the "asshole".They will do anything to damage my reputation,I'm more concerned with my reputation than my friends or any bitch for that matter.

[–]LeEbinConchShell 23 points24 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

these dudes suck. just fuck her

[–]juliusstreicher 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hmmm..."They will do anything to damage my reputation... should I drop them??"

[–]RedSkeller 30 points31 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If they're mad at you over a woman, or blaming you and not the woman, then dump them. They're shitty friends. Also, don't help out people who don't want it or don't deserve it, let them rot.

[–]W_O_M_B_A_T 17 points18 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Get her to text you about all kinds of depraved BDSM type stuff, getting gangbanged, etc.

Then screenshot and send to him, ask him why he's so hung up on some nasty slut. Ask him if he thought she was special.

[–]golgynat0r 6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

actually this is the killer, definetly would wise him up

[–]marcus8crassus 8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Sadly this beta would do the opposite.

[–]W_O_M_B_A_T 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Guy needs some bitter medicine.

[–]marcus8crassus 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No doubt. Just think OP may want to be careful since he lives with the cuck

[–]DjGus 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Your "friend" may have been playing the victim card, and started talking shit behind your back, just like most of the sorry ass children called "men" these days...

Beta is being too nice for those types. Because they behave like women.

[–]DesperateChemical 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Fuck her. Your friend is a faggot.

[–]whosaccisthis94 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Betas can be dangerous... He's cockblocking you now because of a girl would you trust him with your life.

[–]nameisahmad 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Bro, your beta friend thinks he still has a chance with her after he got rejected, thats what betas are, and now he is acting like a lil bitch. I’d say fuck her and fuck them too. Stay longer with them and youll become one of them

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

your kneecap; their balls

[–]FlatEarthBowlCut69 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’d be pissed off too. That should never happen between friends, especially if it’s so cut and dry that she is into you and not him. The worst part is that you haven’t even done anything, thats the part that would make me angriest. If you hear any other pussy bullshit about it I’d 100 percent smash.

[–]ProFriendZoner 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

First Fuck her NOW!

Second explain the facts of life to them that the woman chooses who she fucks and he isn't on the list.

[–]Massap24 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’ve been in this situation except my friends even though they’re beta had sense enough not to act like a bitch about it. I never fucked the girl and everything was cool. But in your case you should definitely fuck & flex.

[–]thrwy75479 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Fuck then cut.

[–]PhaedrusHunt 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

first of all I think you should know the answers to these questions but you're here so I'll do my best kid

My poor friend which I tried to help him get this girl is such a beta

that was your first mistake. Don't try to help beta guys unless they ask. Even then don't really try to help. Woke AFCs already think they know everything why try to help the unwilling? Waste of time

Here is this problem ; I did NOT escalate,I did NOT kino and I have NEVER called or texted this girl or even asked to hang out,I did NOT hang out with this girl without the presence of my friends.

it doesn't matter if you're hanging out with a bunch of dorks all you have to do is not be a dork

I replied "I talked with him about this and its between me and him"

None of his business. Don't reply at all or else be really curt

.If they show any more signs of hostility I'm gonna fuck that bitch just to flex.

Do it if you want to, but ONLY if you want to.

Why does this happen

You're hanging out with losers

and how can I get out of this situation with minimal losses?

Don't hang out with losers

Also should I cut these friends off ?

Not if you want to hang out with losers.

[–]ArnoldT1000 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Stop hanging out with them

[–]Foolishoe 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They will get over it. Just do your thing with her and tell your friend he missed his shot, tell everyone he missed his shot and no one owns her. That's some trashy 4th grade shit to say you own a chick because you had feelings, have feelings, or want something. Really hard up nice guy shit.

[–]TheStumblingWolf 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They are not your friends.

[–]VasiliyZaitzev 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

First, you need new friends.

Second, your betafag friend is a loser. You owe him nothing. He needs some Preparation H to get over his butthurt.

Third, she is using you as “protection” against him. You are under no obligation to provide it. If she starts rubbing your leg, get up and move. Offer to switch seats with him.

Bottom Line: he is a non-scoring doosh who can’t take a hint. That’s not your problem.

[–]DiggerClam 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Friends....

riiiiiight

[–]throwaway4643366577[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Update : the situation is getting bigger,these 3 motherfuckers are telling uninvolved people that I'm hitting on her even though I REFUSE to hang out with them when they were present.

I think I will confront them about this in a few days and if they dont drop this issue I will fuck her just to flex on them kids.

Any feedback and advice would be appreciated

[–]account4improvment1 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

Hey, not sure if you'll see this or if it will resonate with you, but about a year ago, before I got broken up with and discovered the red pill, I would have been in the same position as your friend. So let me just say, don't take it too personally with your friend. It's just where they, and their beta mindset, are at in their life right now. I'm NOT saying that you can't distance yourself from them, especially if they are spreading rumors about you, but just try to understand their perspective and mindset, at least a little.

Now, if you are thinking of cutting ties with them, I would do one last "hail mary" where you lay everything out on the table and explain how you guys should be helping each other out getting women, not fighting over a single girl (there's over 3 billion of them lol, so that's just an absolute waste of time)

[–]throwaway4643366577[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hey, not sure if you'll see this or if it will resonate with you, but about a year ago, before I got broken up with and discovered the red pill, I would have been in the same position as your friend. So let me just say, don't take it too personally with your friend. It's just where they, and their beta mindset, are at in their life right now. I'm NOT saying that you can't distance yourself from them, especially if they are spreading rumors about you, but just try to understand their perspective and mindset, at least a little.

I did and I tried to help them however I could but they are too lazy,too dirty and they think they're better than me in every aspect when clearly they are not.They dont even remove their dirty boxers from shower without me telling them to do so and they try to shittalk me that every opportunity.That is how bad the situation is.

Now, if you are thinking of cutting ties with them, I would do one last "hail mary" where you lay everything out on the table and explain how you guys should be helping each other out getting women, not fighting over a single girl (there's over 3 billion of them lol, so that's just an absolute waste of time)

I already tried but funny thing is I am not fighting over a girl but they are.The girl is just in to me,that's their problem.

Thank you for your advice.

[–]Herdsengineers 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Meh. Women aren't worth the trouble with other guys. Go find a find a new woman and parade her in front of the other guys. This chick that's IOI'ing you will be disappointed, jealous, etc. but this ain't about her. She's not entitled to you. If she says or asks about it, just politely tell her you have a mate that was hot for her, and while you knew she was interested, you passed because you didn't want to stir up that kind of trouble. Let her down easy, affirm she's a good girl, just bad timing, then wish her good luck and send her on her way.

That said - I agree with others that these guys aren't a good long term tribe for you. The one guy sounds like he has oneitis despite never getting anywhere with her. Just gracefully bow out when you can.

[–]Domebeers 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

The Eternal Woman.

Listen, if this guy is your friend, when the girl rejected him, she should have been rejected from the friend circle. Why where you letting this girl hang around?

My man, the only rule in game is you do not fuck with your friends girls. That's the only rule. Why are you breaking the only rule?

This girl is probably going to try to run through the entire friend group. Get that cancer out of there. You'll fuck her, she'll dump you and then go fuck the other friends in the group. Have you not seen this before? This is basic shit.

These friends should cut you off, by the sounds of it.

With that said, and I've posted this many a time: If you have a guy in your friend group that can't get women, you need to cut them out of the friends group or teach them game, because they will sell you out for a whiff of pussy. Look at OP here. He is willing to blow up his friend group because a girl smiled at him. OP should have had his friends back and rejected this girl flat out, as there are lots of other women out there to fuck that won't piss your friend off.

[–]throwaway4643366577[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

He is willing to blow up his friend group because a girl smiled at him. OP should have had his friends back and rejected this girl flat out, as there are lots of other women out there to fuck that won't piss your friend off.

I think not fucking her after she pressed my head against her tits in a private room is rejection no ?

[–]Domebeers 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

why is she still hanging around? If they are roommates and not friends, fuck away. If they are your friends, you don't entertain her shit, remove her from the group. She wants to run through the group. If you don't fuck her another one of the 'friends' will. Don't play with fire.

[–]TheBunk_TB 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Its time to move on completely. Different place and friends.

[–]MrAnderzon 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Keep TRP to yourself. And drop nuggets rarely for your friends. First rule of TRP don't talk about TRP

Drop your friends peacefully.

[–]juliusstreicher 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Cut these friends off, particularly, beta friend. They are blind men with knves...being around them is not healthy.

[–]Don_Draper27 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

If this is the only issue you've had with this group of friends then I'd recommend putting in reasonable effort to try and resolve it. A good group of friends is hard to come by and going nuclear by fucking the girl and saying fuck you can hurt your reputation which causes more problems than you'd like.

And it seems like everyone is being covert. No one is telling the friend that he needs to move on. No one is telling the girl that you're not interested. You need to be straight up with your friends if you think your relationship with this group is worth anything.

"I talked with him about this and its between me and him"

This is a good response but the goal here should be to move past this and remove the tension.

I had this happen to a group of mine where a girl felt uncomfortable because a friend wouldn't stop DM'ing her and asking her out. I was the one to take action and tell the buddy that he had to cease his approaches. I told him that everyone being comfortable and friendly with each other was much more important than him trying to get a date. I even went beyond and explained to him how having this cute girl in our group would attract other cute girls who would better be available for him. It was awkward and uncomfortable for me but it worked and now we all hang out in peace and have a good time.

[–]juliusstreicher 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This ISN'T a good group of friends...it is a group of White Knight Chumps.

[–]throwaway4643366577[S] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

You need to be straight up with your friends if you think your relationship with this group is worth anything.

I asked the guy that if he knew that she was into me and he said he was aware.Then I told him that if he was uncomfortable about it I wouldnt do anything.He said he was uncomfortable then I told him that i wouldnt do anything.

But I'm still subject to their "attacks"

I'm being targeted even though I'm completely innocent and honest about this.Thats why I'm furious and looking for answers

[–]Don_Draper27 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Your friends seem like betas and white knights

[–]throwaway4643366577[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Seem ? Surely they ARE.And I want to know what to do about it.

[–]Don_Draper27 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

When you have friends that are high SMV and provide benefits and support in your life, you'll know that low value people should be ignored and avoided.

[–]Questionnaire7 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You should breakit down logically for them. You didnt esclate and its not your fault shes into you. Point out to them their reputation damaging behavior is female in nature.

Im so lucky all my blue pill friends dont ever desire to leave their houses.

[–]AuberyBitoni -1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Why are you talking about getting cockblocked when you don't even want this girl? This girl is obviously playing games and your beta friend is too dumb to notice it, she's trying to make him jealous, she loves the attention. So far you've been a good friend. If you don't consider him a close friend, fuck this girl. But if he's a close friend, ignore her and spend your time on better things...

[–]throwaway4643366577[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Nah man she definitely wants to fuck and she is fuckable.However I wasnt interested until I saw hostility from my friends

[–]jm51 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Tell her no sex with you until she has fucked your mate. Then tell your mate what you told her.

[–]juliusstreicher 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

She doesn't give a shit about beta boy...she would have given him IOIs if she were. Chicks don't try to make chumps jealous.

[–]Lateralanouncer 1 points [recovered]  (6 children) | Copy Link

I disagree. Bros before hoes. Your putting getting your nut off before your friend. You should be working with your bro and supporting each other while gaming.

[–]throwaway4643366577[S] 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

Did you read what I wrote ?

[–]Lateralanouncer 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes I did. I’m not American so come from a different culture. over here we don’t put getting pussy before each other. For me and my boys we are a pack and we respect each other. For example I had a similar situation a few years back and asked my boy before making a move, He gave me his blessing. No cock blocking, just respect and We are still good friends.

[–]throwaway4643366577[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm not American either and our culture is similar.The problem is that I'm getting bullied for a girl even though I'm innocent.

[–]Lateralanouncer 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I would also ad the woman maybe boosting her ego by playing you guys against each other.

[–]throwaway4643366577[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

She shuts the other guy down.Like we were playing a game and they tried to change where I sit because girl was hugging me and holding my hand and shit.I did change because they insisted like bitches.The girl changed her seat and sat next to me without me uttering a single word.While ignoring the other guys attempts to talk to her.Shit like that.

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