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Books on how to truly improve your “game”

June 23, 2020

I just finally read Rationale Male. Really eye opening. Broke things down to simple terms. I now know I should aim mainly to improve my 3 areas in the sexual market place meaning my looks, money/status and game. I truly want to be great at all 3 to have the whole package.

My issue is I don’t know where to start on developing game. PUA Game to me always seemed inauthentic and fake and just a tool guys use when they aren’t real to women. However I’m reading “The game” and it seems somewhat beneficial but I don’t know where to improve or how.

What steps would you take?

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Title Books on how to truly improve your “game”
Author beardestbird
Upvotes 6
Comments 16
Date June 23, 2020 10:48 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
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[–]LeatherBoundWisdom8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Models by Mark Manson is fantastic.

Sidebar material on proper mindset, guide to accepting yourself especially.

Best thing you can do though is trial and error approach. Try new things, focus on having in the moment fun not on pulling girls. Don't try to play a character you don't know how to play, but augment your own.

I would drive out an hour away to a mall with a buddy and just go at it. 75 rejections and 3 months later, I lost my virginity.

[–]beardestbird[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

How is easy approaching for you now? Second nature? Easier to get laid?

[–]LeatherBoundWisdom2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Back when I did it, it was just a mode I could turn on and off, charisma on demand. Tremendously valuable skill.

Unfortunately, I used that skill to get a bid and pledge a frat, and now the pussy is really too easy. I'm very much out of practice as far as the balls for day game, and that great skill I had has diminished significantly. I need to start up again. Goes to show progress is never linear.

[–]Snowboard184 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

First and foremost, lift weights. Like seriously lift weights. You know that guy that carries around a gallon of water and goes to the gym for 1-2 hours, that’s now you sir.

Other than that, get some good fitting clothes and a solid haircut.

But probably the most important point is, you need to go talk to girls, a lot of them, and yes you will fuck up alot. Having the red pill knowledge plus talking to a ton of girls will turn you into a slayer in no time.

Oh just now realized you asked for more books. I didn’t read any other than the rational male and experience is the best teacher.

[–]beardestbird[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Gotcha. I’ve been back on keto for a bit and plan on doing full body 5 days a week for optimal results. I feel once my body is right then my self confidence will go up which will make approaching much easier. I’m not obese or anything but I’m definitely overweight

[–]boy_named_su2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Game, and Day Game by Roosh

I second Models by Manson

[–]beardestbird[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Perfect. Did it help you pick up women easier?

[–]boy_named_su2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ya, Day Game was def helpful. More tactical. Game is a bit more general

[–]Huntbutt3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

dude fuck books .

you need to go out and actually do it

[–]beardestbird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You’re right. Was just hoping those books would provide a basis of a game plan on what to do

[–]PinacoladaSauce1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Not a book but Real Social Dynamics is more or less the gold standard about game

[–]beardestbird[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Is that in the sidebar?

[–]PinacoladaSauce1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Nah it’s a group of people. Google it and see what you think. It’s best resource for game imo

[–]RP_UrbanMonk1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That is David DeAngelo. That is the guy that was one of the guys in Neil Strass's book "The Game".

Just another name for the PUA community.

[–]Ekhochambeer-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Books about game are for autists. Learn to enjoy talking to people and you wont need game

[–]beardestbird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I do enjoy talking to people. I’m not autistic at all. I have friends and am great with convo. Just wish to improve game which is needed in red pill

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