Can flaunting your wealth on tinder backfire

xxx69harambe69xxx · 2021-01-13T06:01:37+00:00

what r u asking us for, gimme ur money and ill let u kno

throw-away-1709 · 2021-01-13T06:38:05+00:00

Best is not to show wealth. It attracts the wrong ones.

If you want girls who want you for money - buy them by the hour.

Or buy a small condo and a volkswagon for fun and use jeans/sneakers and don't talk about your yacht or car collection.

Ensifror · 2021-01-13T08:05:26+00:00

Flaunting your wealth is a bad idea imo. I'm sure some guys have success with it, but it seems high risk low reward for me.

At least in their early 20's, girls care way more about your looks and status than your wealth. So flashing bucks doesn't helps all that much. And for those who it does, it's easy to imagine that would increase your risk of being baby trapped. Or make women less likely to sleep with you on the first date because they want you long term.

KirthWGersen · 2021-01-13T08:11:54+00:00

Depends on what you want.

There is nothing wrong with gold-diggers if you like spoiling a woman in that way. You get willing sex and a feeling of being a superior provider; she gets diamonds and a feeling of being cared for because she is superior to other women. You both get what you want. Sounds like a nightmare to me though.

I have had lots of men complain to me about Russians and South Americans they meet on Tinder who are only after their money. All the Russians and South Americans I have met have been looking for companionship, love and sex and have paid their own way. It all depends on how you project yourself.

Personally, I get little pleasure from spending money on women, so I attract a different kind of woman. Gold-diggers don't even give me a second look.

AnxietyOlympics · 2021-01-13T06:33:35+00:00

Pros and cons to everything dude.

Imagine if you are a male model. Most girls would give anything to fuck you but there will still be a lot of girls who think u are a fuckboy or piece of shit just because you are extremely attractive

wanker7171 · 2021-01-13T11:03:16+00:00

Bragging, flexing, and showing off is low status as fuck, as you're qualifying yourself. If she is actually interested in you she will learn this naturally through conversation and spending time with you.

cunningcaring · 2021-01-13T11:26:42+00:00

Of course. You can attract the wrong women.

150420throwaway · 2021-01-13T12:16:06+00:00

Show wealth and gain more so called friends who will definitely be there for you when you suddenly lose all that money.

Keep that shit to you, never talk how much you’ve got. When it comes to tinder, sure you can show off to increase the likelihood of a hook up, but that’s it, she probably will see you as a money bag and knowing how entitled some bitches are on tinder, they will expect it with minimal input.

gomen01 · 2021-01-13T13:07:18+00:00

Been there, done that. I don’t necessarily show my wealth on tinder but I’m dressed expensively in my pics, so girls just assume right of the bait that I’m some rich dude. It’s a bad idea. You’ll attract a lot of gold-diggers who want free-meals and will mostly likely use you as a doormat while they fuck around with other guys.

Girls have literally confirmed this on femaledatingstrategy/r they’ll fuck the hot guys on the side, while they’ll date the rich guy and expect him to marry her in the near future. Many girls on the subreddit saw this as normal, so that tells you a lot about flaunting your wealth on dating sites.

It’s also extremely easy to weed out these types of girls if your red pill aware. I usually get it within 3 minutes into the date.

glowing_dolphins · 2021-01-13T13:18:48+00:00

If you want someone to go after your money, show that.

If you want someone to go after your body, show that.

For some high class girls it’s a box tick. Someone with Wealth isn’t going to go for someone without Wealth.

Capital W intentional.

clickherebaby · 2021-01-13T16:50:50+00:00

Contrary to popular opinion, showing your wealth tastefully like an ab photo is beneficial are you kidding? Bitches go crazy for nice cars

MediocreMall5735 · 2021-01-14T06:22:09+00:00

“Accidentally” show signs that you’re well off. Same with guns, “accidentally” show that you’re protected at all times.

Women love these things but HATE when guys flaunt them.

r32_skyline · 2021-01-13T09:25:59+00:00

lol by your post you sound beta either way.

Title	Can flaunting your wealth on tinder backfire
Author	I_cant_go_to_heaven
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Date	January 13, 2021 5:46 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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