Can you relate a situation where you think you went too far with dread game?

October 24, 2017
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I'm currently seeing this chick. We had sex almost immediately when we met. Anyway, we did a ton of things together. When I moved in to a new place she came and helped me scrub the toilets and clean the house. She also buys me stuff when she goes on vacation. We're going fine dining later in the week on her coin.

But I still lay the dread on thick. I don't know why it's become a habit I guess. But I do like this chick and want to keep her around. Not sure how far to carry out the dread

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Title Can you relate a situation where you think you went too far with dread game?
Author majorbollocks
Upvotes 1
Comments 16
Date October 24, 2017 2:04 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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[–]WhoWasBlowjob6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If she's a good girl she will leave you if you actually do bang other chicks and not just show her you have options

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

The only way to over-dread is if your SMV is staggeringly higher than hers and you're fucking other girls. Even then she'll still stick around most times.

[–]majorbollocks[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Agreed. I get this feeling that there is no such thing as over dread, only under dread. I've gotten touchy feely with other women in front of my plate before and it resulted in her grabbing my cock in my friend's car on the way to another pub.

Emotional investment + dread = extreme attraction

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's exactly it.

If you're fucking other girls with plausible deniability & still giving her emotional spikes she'll probably fucking love you for it & not mind you fucking other girls at all. It's impossible to covertly over-dread.

It's when guys are fucking other girls & bragging to her about it and shit like that it becomes too overt & just drives her away.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes, banging multiple women and not focusing on her sexual needs at all. Ultimate dread, created serious insecurity

[–]quicklogaccount1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

So, you're over that chick now?

[–]_the_shape_2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes.

Many, many years ago, I confessed to my GF-at-the-time that not only would I check out other girls, I'd play out a few fantasies in my mind about what I'd like to do with them. She broke down crying shortly thereafter, I think largely in part because she'd occasionally see other girls throw themselves at me, so it may have struck her as a very real possibility, that I'd (one day) take the bait and fuck one of these chicks. Her Father cheating on her Mom and subsequently breaking apart the family may have played a role in that too.

I don't think any of that is necessary these days, though. If you remain attractive and make it a habit of simply being friendly with any and all girls you come across, the message of dread will be effectively passed along, and if you're doing it overtly ("you know I could fuck other chicks, right? You know that, right? You know my ex is just a text away, right?"), you're doing it wrong, but if you're doing it subtly, occasionally, covertly (as I wrote above, being friendly with girls), not only are you executing it properly, you're also bound to get better results because her hamster will fill in all the colorful little details..

[–]majorbollocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for this man. She did the whole jealousy routine on me by fawning over this dude all over some shared social media groups. I know she's just pretending cause the dude is a needy beta who just happens to be successful in business.

I just ignored it and today i posted a pic of some souvenir a girl bought me while on vacation but i get this feeling i went too far because she's not returning my texts lol. There was no girl in the pic just the souvenir and my drink so plenty of room for the hamster.

Oh well we'll see tomorrow what happens

[–]quicklogaccount1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If you're not good at game yet, you're bound to overdo dread.

When I was looking into fixing the power balance with my ex I flirted and talked to a chick, in front of her, and the chick was the personification of her nemesis, her road not taken added of a body she never had. At the time she had gotten touchy feely with a guy in front of me and said that wasn't flirting so, well, she couldn't say I was flirting. She called me on it, I laughed it off instead of telling her she did the same.
She cried her ass off and fucked me under circumstances she'd never, ever do, out of sheer insecurity. Dread "worked" but with great cost for her, it could have worked without going nearly as far.

[–]Love8Death1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Accidentally showed my SO how I'm capable of completely ignoring her for hours in the presence of her and others. Woops.

Totally unnecessary too. Live and learn.

[–]majorbollocks[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

So what happened? She dumped you? Or you guys had more make up sex?

[–]Love8Death0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

She tried to run. I didn't let her. Comfort, basically.

[–]MispelledZobmie0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Well, I actually had to go and fuck another girl outdoors with 0 effort, before my LTR finally agreed to do the same (she used to do that before me, of course). Relationship in shambles, she is up for anything now and I'm still looking for a new place ro move away and end it, but rent is high af... I feel like I'm living the 1 year demo of the guy from "Saving the best" post.

[–]majorbollocks[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I noticed that they almost want us to cheat on them every once in a while, just to reassure their hamsters that they're with a desirable man. The more hypergamous they are the more this seems to be case.

And the hottest ones are the most hypergamous too. So yeah go figure. Did you fuck the other chick outdoors on purpose though?

[–]MispelledZobmie0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Well, it was a big thing for me to do, and I had just found out it was a big fantasy of hers a while ago that she got to fulfill, so it was on purpose.

Yet it all turned to even more shit afterwards, and I'm not feeling like it anymore.

[–]majorbollocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Weird huh. That's the game for you i guess

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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