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Can’t stop thinking about my ex

August 18, 2018

This shit is pissing me off and it’s been sometimes so I’m wondering is this ever going to go away.

I’ve been with tons of women so I have abundance. We dated and I actually left her because I didn’t trust her. I knew it was better for both of us to go our separate ways. We split and after some plates and time I got another girlfriend. then me and her got back together but just sex. Then she said she didn’t like it just being sex. She was sick of being hidden. So we parted again.

I’m still with my LTR and things are good but I can’t stop thinking about my ex. I constantly wonder about her. I constantly want to hit her up. I don’t even have social media anymore but I go on her page to see what she’s doing. I know this isn’t healthy but I can’t help it.

What do I do. Is this ever going to stop?

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Title Can’t stop thinking about my ex
Author InconspicuousWand
Upvotes 1
Comments 9
Date August 18, 2018 9:34 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
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[–]aaaGreg5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

It’ll pass with time. But you have to allow it to pass; stop lurking on her social media and accept that you will never contact this human again.

It’ll pass bro

[–]InconspicuousWand0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

I keep telling myself that but damn it’s been months.

[–]aaaGreg4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dude it took me like 5 to get over the one that led me to here. It’s sucks but it will get easier. Eventually a day will pass and you don’t even think of her. Then a week. Then she’ll barely be a memory shortly after that.

Remove all the shit that reminds you of her from your life. And be sure you live your best life every fucking day. That’s the way brother.

[–]Rares55550 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

One time it lasted me a year. And I’ve had girls during that period.

[–]InconspicuousWand0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yea man I’ve had girls and a new girlfriend. Still I always think about her.

I’d say it’s been 4-5 months

[–]growinglats1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Never go to her social media again. “Thought replacement therapy” is a proven concept that works. Every time you find yourself thinking about her, immediately change the subject in your mind and start thinking about something that you decide on, like your career, school, the gym. Just choose something. It works.

[–]W_O_M_B_A_T0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is a milder version of a woman "committing suicide" by taking a bunch of sleeping pills. Self-sabotage because you think you need to wrangle attention or validation back to yourself.

If you want some drama, there are better ways of creating it.

[–]red_philosopher0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

That oneitis is serious business. Happens to the best of us. Delete her from everything. EVERYTHING.

[–]earthmother920 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Oneitis as fuck!

Block her from everything, fuck as many girls as you can and it will pass in time. Years or months but it will pass.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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