Wanted to get some feedback from you guys to see if I handled this well.
I'm presuming this is a straight up shit-test. She went out with her girl friends last night until 4am. I was working in one of the bars and I finished at 4am also. She text me while I was working to see if I was still around, to which I said yeah. She ended up coming back to my place.
All sounds pretty good right? Well, soon after she started talking about this guy who she was talking to in a nightclub and told me about "how cool and chill he was and how they were talking for ages about different stuff". After swallowing TRP a year ago, my gut automatically told me this was a shit-test 101. I didn't react, I acted indifferent... even though I have to admit I felt some insecurities rearing their ugly head inside me (not badly, but I did feel them a bit). I simply kept the conversation casual and mellow and asked about how her night went, and didn't react to it.
Just wanted some feedback from you guys, did I handle it well or could I have handled it a different way. Also, some opinions on what happened would be appreciated.
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