This past Friday, I (21) met this girl (21) at my gym and we instantly hit it off. However, I learned after talking to her for a little bit that she is SUPER CHRISTIAN... Let me rewind for better context.
The first time we met, she approached me and asked to work in on deadlifts because the gym was packed out. I graciously agreed of course because she has a super attractive body. Anyways, I take every trip to the gym pretty personally, because I went from being 25lbs overweight to being in great shape. So, when I'm at the gym, I'm there to work. That being said, this girl and I are locked on the same barbell, taking turns lifting and pulling weights on and off while I am more or less minding my own business with my earbuds in. She then proceeds to ask me for help on her form. Surprised, I jump at the opportunity in front of me and begin walking her through proper form, how to grip the bar, blah blah blah. We end up striking up a conversation and it turns out she goes to the same college as me. We brush over a variety of topics, including the fact that she is very religious, goes to a youth group, and a bunch of other church stuff. She then begins telling me about how she plays tennis. I connect with her on this and tell her that I also played varsity tennis for my high school. Immediately, she suggest that we should play sometime, so I take the hint and ask her for her number. I grab the digits, wrap up the conversation, and finish my workout.
Three or so hours later, I shot her a text that said, "hey, (insert my name) from the gym. Great meeting you! Lets play tennis this weekend if you're free"
She responded the next day (Sat.) saying that she wanted to play today. Unfortunately, the weather was shit though so I said I'd rather wait until the weather clears up. She agreed and recommends we play the following we due to her work schedule on Sunday.
I then see her again as she is leaving the gym in her car Sunday, she hops out, gets my attention as I'm walking in, and we strike up a quick conversation. I basically told her that was excited to meet up for tennis this week, make a joke about her following me to the gym, then wrap it up and go in for a workout.
Following this, on Monday, I reconnect via text and say that Wednesday will work and she agrees.
Sooooo, its obvious that this girl is into me, but the issue is, I don't know how to turn this meet up towards a sexual vibe. It also doesn't help that this girl made her christian beliefs very blatant. The goal here for me is to get some practice under my belt, but I would also like to hook up with this girl if possible. I'm not necessarily trying to date anyone as much as I am just trying to get a few plates spinning. What is the play here? How do I turn a damn tennis meet up sexual, and how do I hook up with this girl despite her beliefs?
I am willing to try or say anything that yall think is best, because frankly, this chick amuses me. It seems like a great chance for some practice, considering the fact that she literally approached me.