Went round to a friends place. I say friend because that's all I thought she was, we used to work together and she's older than me, I'm 19 her being 22 or something.

Anyway this was my 2nd time there, we smoke and chill just like last time. She was hitting on me heavy, all of the IOIs in the book. Ignored it mostly because I wasn't interested, was just there for the free food and her hot roommate.

While I'm talking to her roommate, she texts me "can I use u for cuddles" (she's in the same room watching us). One side of my brain says ignore it, just screw her roommate but my other side says "what's wrong with you, you're a man, you don't turn down pussy".

We go to her room, she starts netflix and lies next to me. I'm cold as shit at this point and high as shit, so I start kinda shivering. I use this as an excuse to say come closer I'm cold. From there I escalate and make out. At this point I'll come clean, I'm nervous as a blind bat. She keeps saying we're not going to fuck and other LMRs/ASDs. I say okay and keep making out.

But at some point, maybe 15 mins in, I have my hand under her shirt and she pulls out of the kiss and says you have to chill. She does this maybe 3 more times, everytime I try to escalate. I should add I'm still shivering, this doesn't help me with my dominating frame.

But This is the part I'm not proud of. I break frame. I ask her do you want me to leave. She says no. I then say why tf did u ask me to cuddle. She says I just wanted to cuddle. I say okay bitch and get up, put my shoes on. She says aww don't get butthurt, in that stupid little tone. And then I leave her place, not another word.

She blocked me on everything from there. Idc about her, I just want to know if there was a better way to handle that situation. Thinking back, the best thing was to withdraw attention and go back to watching Netflix. But I just got pissed she took me away from her roommate.