It's past but I have been seeing myself looking for similar attributes she had. One striking thing is that she called herself "nurturing" and it might've gotten me some weird complex. She was also a nut where she said that men look for women who resemble their mothers, to get it straight, she does not. And I don't really believe that. But she was often motherly in a way that technically she was a cougar and I'm kind of ashamed that I liked being treated to fancy dinners and concerts by her. I felt embarrassed that if my family finds this out, I'd gross everyone out, so it's past.

Dating women younger or around one's age is great. But I've been getting a lot of women who begs or vies for that care for me, I'm babe, you should go all out your way mindset. It's the norm, I get it, but in my past relationship an equal balance was interesting and it felt like I could just rest more. I didn't really have to care for my finance as a more settled woman (as often as is the case with older) also have their things together. I might just be hanging around at the wrong spots but I feel mentally screwed up because that might've just been my one chance that I'd never get to easily have again. And now I find myself looking through this frame, and it's quite irritating, to say the least. You can teach her to become more equal (for example, get her to discover her submissive opposite) but it's a work and it's sometimes just not in her (both sexually, socially) or am I just mentally screwed up because of this? If so, how can I fix it, and has anyone here been in a similar situation? How did you get around it?