got rejected hard. I was in a thermal bath two days ago with my brother to relax. We saw two girls who kept looking sometimes at us and giggling. So we came to conclusion that they could be attracted and want to get approached. He was behind me and following me shy and later after thinking way too long about just doing it, because I got fucking nervous and felt like an Autist, I said fuck it and went to them. While moving to them, one girl of them noticed me coming and turned a bit away. I still stopped infront of both of them, one even showed her back to me, and I knew that this not gonna work because of how defensive they got and said: „hey, me and my brother thought you both seem interesting, so I thought I'll just talk to you“. Immediately this one girl says „We have a boyfriend“. My anxiety went to the roof, I could feel how shit I felt and it was really uncomfortable, I know that my face must have flinched, yet I said „me too“. They looked at me in confusion and gross, and I shrugged my shoulders and went away laughing. My brother told me, this was fucking awful, but yet he was the one, standing behind me doing nothing. Also told me, they laughed over me and must be think I’m some weirdo.
Tbh this was kind of a nightmare for me, but some seconds after I felt fucking amazing, because who fucking cares, atleast I did it and tried. Yet thinking about this situation again, makes me anxious again and rejection really hurts. Is this what I will have to just get used to? Just keep doing this until i don’t care anymore? It’s hard for me to don’t give a fuck, it’s the worst feeling when trieing to approach a girl, I never feel so scared, vulnerable and anxious. Like an Autist and I dunno how to fight this.
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