Different game for girls who seem to have LTR potential?

nyrp · 2014-07-24T03:30:36+00:00

Every girl in the LTR category better be in the fuck category or you're in trouble.

[deleted] · 2014-07-24T06:33:55+00:00

I really don't want to think this is a subtle way for your to NAWALT. If it is you're an idiod. Moving on.

All women start the same, you just gauge in raport with their bitch shield, if it's up(club, the uk or a bartender) then you go more asshole than funny. If it's in a casual setting(park, a group of firends that already like you or sweden) then you dial back the asshole.

By asshole I don't mean rude self hating grumpy cat.

Fundamentally all girls are ONS material and you treat them as such. No wild cards sex should not be sued as a female bargaining chip, you are together because you want to bang, anything different is vague and disingenuous. Then you progress into dating, plating or FWB and see how it goes.

There are no special girls, long term relationship only girl. A lot of them claim to be that way, and we fall for it, but what they are actually doing is setting you up as "keeper". Now as such, you can stay in that box like a good little boy and only take what is given to you or you can acknowledge her intentions, be openly amused at her technique and tell her how it's going to go: you tell her your intentions for medium term, you outline your deal breakers and tell her what parts of her terms are unacceptable.

vandaalen · 2014-07-24T06:37:28+00:00

I tend to analyze and categorize girls pretty quick, almost subconsciously. Do I want to fuck her? Look her over and categorize, yes, no or maybe. Could I see myself in a LTR with her? Talk to her for a bit and categorize, yes, no or maybe.

This is pretty bp and bullshit in my opinion unless we are only talking about looks. You might be able to opt "No" for LTR-material because of obvious red flags like slutty looks but you can't opt "Yes" for an LTR by just chatting a couple of words.

You don't know nothing about her, her past, her submissivness, etc. pp.

Also the question per sé indicates that you still anywhere believe in NAWALT and pedestalize some women.

Of course you treat them all the same. You behave the way you behave because you are righteous about it. Remember that you are the price and not her. No matter of how much your hamster tells you that she is "spe-he-cial".

cray-cray-cray · 2014-07-24T13:50:09+00:00

They're all a plate to start with. It's possible for them to earn an ltr, but among other requirements, it takes a lot of fucking, cooking, and cleaning.

trpMilo · 2014-07-24T07:12:00+00:00

Yeah. Fuck her even faster. Just because a good LTR prospect doesn't sleep with other guys quickly or often doesn't mean you shouldn't be trying to sleep with her ASAP. She will feel much MORE committed, loving, and passionate about you after she's had sex with you than an average plate would, because she has to resolve cognitive dissonance.

sparta126 · 2014-07-24T13:36:42+00:00

Dude, it's like fishing. Do you bait the hook any differently because you know that big ones coming? You do everything the exact same. You bait the hook cast the line and then when you get one on you wrestle the damn thing for hours. A good ltr is going to be like that big fish. It's going to challenge your limits , and even though it's the same method, it just takes a bit more time/effort

wakethfkupneo · 2014-07-24T08:57:57+00:00

Different game - no. The only thing you'll accomplish is to fool yourself.

If you 'game' her properly she'll be very sexual from the get go. Why? Because she's a woman; simple as that. And don't worry about ruining something because too alpha game (it's just in your head) - IF she is LTR worthy, you will be her dream come true and she'll be the happiest girl in the world. Seriously, what can be more fulfilling than getting commitment from alpha. Maybe you could go just a notch slower and don't push for sex on the first date; you could wait for commonly accepted 3rd, but that's the furthest I'd be willing to stretch. More than that and you're certified beta bux.

However, if you game her improperly and give off a (semi)beta vibe, she'll see you as 'boyfriend' (beta bux) potential and you'll get the standard 'no sex before Nth date/month', 'I'm not that kind of girl' and similar antislut deception maneuvers. Even uber-sluts will do that to you. And there's no one to blame but yourself.

Do what you must, do it properly, don't judge her by getting too sexual with you (it just means you played it right), but look for red flags and qualities that you know she should (not) have. If in doubt, ask someone else, some close friend or even here, someone who can think straight.

laere · 2014-07-24T12:41:33+00:00

You know nothing about a girl, other than her physical appearance, and you're already placing her in a LTR category. You are setting yourself up for disappointment.

Counter423 · 2014-07-24T04:31:56+00:00

Are you ready to settle down?

If not LTR's are a waste of life.

Title	Different game for girls who seem to have LTR potential?
Author	shooter212
Upvotes	9
Comments	11
Date	July 24, 2014 1:13 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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