Do women seriously just travel for dick? I've noticed whenever I'm backpacking, the women I'm around act more horny...

March 10, 2019

I was backpacking through Eastern Europe a few months ago, and I noticed that all the women I talked to were really direct with me in terms of sexuality. Some of them made it completely obvious that they wanted to get smashed by some guy who was decent looking. Do women only travel to have sex? I feel that men travel for the views, the food, the culture, etc. but women really only care about meeting hot foreign men. Is this true?

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Title Do women seriously just travel for dick? I've noticed whenever I'm backpacking, the women I'm around act more horny...
Author shamakvv
Upvotes 223
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Date March 10, 2019 1:18 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]bsutansalt[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link

Vacation mentality. They're away from the judging eyes of their social circles and peers and so they're more likely to fuck around.

[–][deleted] 328 points329 points  (20 children) | Copy Link

Ill explain it using what I learned about female psychology.

Right now, there's only one thing holding secular women from expressing their true dark sexual natures: their social image. No woman wants to be perceived as a slut for obvious reasons, including the fact that it will affect her job placement and will make it harder for her to find a male who's willing to commit. When women travel, they express their true sexual side since there's no one there to judge except strangers whom they will never encounter again. In their minds, sex abroad won't tarnish their image since no one of importance will know about it.

[–]shamakvv[S] 61 points62 points  (14 children) | Copy Link

What about girls who plan spring break trips with their friends? Their friends will be there to judge them...does that affect how they act with guys they meet on spring break?

[–]noPTSDformePlease147 points148 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

they are all in on it together. "what happens on spring break stays on spring break".

their friend group is better thought of as a pussy patrol out hunting for cock.

[–]omega_dawg9364 points65 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

the herd mentality kicks-in and protects the group. don't believe me... ask any honest woman what happens at a bachelorette party.

if just TWO of them get out of hand with a male stripper, expect at least 80% of the remaining women to do the same or escalate.

i've seen it with my own two eyes... bridesmaids, MILFS & GILFS and other older women in the crowd kissing, handling, and yes, sucking male stripper dix.

[–]monsieurhire27 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

So, those stripper-bear videos on Pornhub are actually documentaries then.... lol

[–]Mangasbzo711 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol yes. My gf has told me about multiple bacholorette parties she been to where the bride-to-be had made out with another guy. Seems to be pretty common.

It never gets back to the husband.

[–]l0vewins12 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Yep, just a recent example...

On the spur of the moment, met up with an old fling (who was home on college break) at a bar who was out with all her girlfriends (who are all in a relationship, mind you) and just before arriving, my girl literally texted me saying, "Lol everyone's fucking with their ex here tonight, so no one is worried about me seeing you."

Ended up bringing her and her friends back to my place where they happened to hear me and her friend going at wtf lol. Knowing that she was in a 2 year relationship, all her friends were cool with's that herd mentality.

[–]yungplayz20 points21 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Dude because you don't stay friends with someone who judges you for too long.

You tend to pick friends who are OK with your dark side, whether u a dude or a chick, doesn't matter. And who would be more OK with it than the ones who got the same lookin ass dark side themselves?

That's why, when u about to do what your dark side tells you, there are two groups of friends: 1. The ones who won't judge you 2. The ones who won't get to know a damn thing

And this kind of herds comprises of the first group only

[–]chomponthebit2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

  1. The ones who won’t get to know a damn thing

These are the people who are never invited to the really good parties

[–]Auvergnat25 points26 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

What he told you so eloquently is that women do not travel for sex as you hypothesised from your observation and still seem to imply with your answer, but that travel creates the conditions for them to fully express their sexuality.

Surely there are a lot of girls whose desire to travel also include the possibility for sexual encounters, but that doesn't mean they all do. Most girls probably don't even have it on their mind when they plan their travel. They go for the views, the culture, the adventure (and to be able to brag about it on social media). After all, many still want to travel with their boyfriend so it can't only be the sex with strangers.

So she books her ticket to Vietnam for a little solo trip without the idea of sexual encounters on her mind at all. She just wants to have some fun and boost up her image on facebook... but then she meets that Australian surfer dude who manages the backpacker hostel. She'd normally discard the idea but you know he's hot and there's not many guys like this back home... plus her parents and friends are not here... and her boyfriend either... and nobody back home would ever know... and the secret and the taboo is quite exciting...

[–]Howdoiusesync6 points7 points  (4 children) | Copy Link


[–]MarvelousWhale3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

What is the definition of this? Did you mean solipsism?

[–]Howdoiusesync1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Yes, sorry was on my phone. Means in the basic terms that I understand if the sky is green to the girl she'll look for confirmation from her peer group that the sky is green. Then based her actions based on that. "It didn't count count right Daisy?" Daisy: "Yeah it didn't count" Her: "Youre right, i feel much better now"

[–]MarvelousWhale-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I've googled the term and couldn't find a definition, hence why I asked

[–]Howdoiusesync0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

no worries i spelled it wrong. But yeah after a while, hanging out with girls and their friends you kinda just see it. Pro tip: you can see who's on your side and not who is not. Learned it the hard way, had a girl that wasn't over me, she told her friends and one of them told me that a in the group on girl said "why you weren't even drunk?" It's something you can read, and is expected.

[–]_the_shape_1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Right now, there's only one thing holding secular women from expressing their true dark sexual natures: their social image.

Even that concept is being turned on it's head

[–]spartan_samurai0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nice explanation of their sexual adventure trips.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Ill explain it using what I learned about female psychology

I wanna know what psychology book you're reading, because it sounds like you're talking out of your ass

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

because it sounds like you're talking out of your ass

ok Mr. Segmund Freud. Enlighten me with your deep knowledge about women. Keep in mind that the trannies u have been with don't count, though.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

So you deflect with the ad hominem because you can't provide sources. Got it 😂😂👍

[–]Bruchibre155 points156 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Women don't travel for dicks, dicks just happen. Then they don't count.

[–]omega_dawg9380 points81 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

this guy Bruchibre understands women.

this is real talk.

none of that sex will count because they were not looking for it, and they told ALL those guys that sex was not going to happen.

so they went to his place, and said again, "sex isn't gonna happen." but then it does... and it was HIS FAULT-not hers.

and she comes home and tells everyone..."i met this hot guy and went to his place, but i told him... sex was NOT going to happen; so we just chilled and talked." the WOMEN will know what that means. 97% of the guys i know will think NO sex happened.

fellas, if you learn nothing about female nature, please understand this concept: to women, they can LITERALLY discount sexual encounters and forget them. "it didn't count," is real in female world. it's silly, but it's true to them.

[–]therandombiker123 points24 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

then they write bestsellers books like "east, pray, love", the story of a post-wall woman who decided to divorce without an actual reason and go around the world in a fuck spree

[–]boy_named_su76 points77 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, they travel for dick

They can totally slut it up, and no one back home is going to know

And travel gives them lotsa Instagram attention

And they usually don't end up paying for their trips. Usually Billy Beta will end up paying her debts when they marry

[–]Emerald__Faith27 points28 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

If shes travelling this is where she can truly get experimental, she will even do gang bangs ect because shes in a far off fantasy land that no one will know about.

If you have a girl that wants to travel without you then boy I have some bad news.

[–]shamakvv[S] 10 points11 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

And then a Billy Beta will come in and wife her up....why are men still getting married? I don't understand. They need to wake up and stop committing to sluts!

[–]yungplayz3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Y do people get married at all is a question I have no answer to. All the feelings and stuff need not be documented.

[–]AwakenedSovereign36 points37 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Went on a cruise recently and saw the following:

Entire group wearing "What Happens On The Cruise Stays On The Cruise" t-shirts

Chick wearing a shirt that said "Trust Me"

Cheating is an Olympic sport. Get with the program.

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Banging a dude on a European vacation is a pretty common fantasy for women. It's a common trope in fiction...cliches are cliches because they're true. Women don't travel for dong per se, it's more just something that's expected because it says to them they're attractive, whimsical, and worthy of "romance."

[–]CainPrice9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It's kind of similar to tinder. When a girl meets a guy off of tinder that she'll never see again, she's forward, flirty, dirty, slutty, and sexual. He's not part of her social circle or a coworker, so there are no social consequences.

Women abroad are like that. They enjoy traveling for a lot of reasons, but since they can and nobody will know, there's no reason not to hook up while they're abroad, too.

Traveling is expensive and requires a lot of planning. Tinder is more modern and accessible, but runs the slight risk that someone you know may see you on tinder.

[–]omega_dawg9322 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

female logic: go on vacation, see a hot guy, fuck him within 30 min going absolutely nuts draining him and loving every minute of it. she'll never see him again, and her sexuality is overt and enthusiastic.

now, she's back home and meets a very good guy. she will HIDE her sexuality as best as she can to play "nice & innocent," so he'll think he's getting a "good girl."

women have NO PROBLEM with his 'logic.' slut-it-up and show her TRUE nature with a stranger she'll never see again, but restrain/restrict her sexuality with a guy she plans to spend the rest of her life loving... in a caring relationship...NEVER letting him see that wild, uninhibited girl.

naaah... nothing is going to happen with this type of 'honesty.'

[–]kim_jong_cum36 points37 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Why are you complaining about it? Just get ripped for the summer, go to a nice beach, and enjoy all the attention you'll get.

[–]D3athN0te1016 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

This guy gets it.

Thanks for reminding me, btw. Summer is almost here, and I've been slacking off & getting fat.

Time to put in some work :)

[–]yungplayz2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Fuck my workload that leaves no time for a gym, but in a few days from now I'll get that free time.

On the bright side, summer won't really happen before mid June where I'm at, so I have a bit of time at my disposal.

[–]arsarsars1233 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I was like this too, I'd come home and have maybe 1-2 hours to relax/work out, and didn't have the energy or motivation to go gym. So I forced myself to do small dumbbell exercises at home, started cooking a weeks meal at once and saved a bit of extra time I can put towards going gym as my place is tiny.

[–]yungplayz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

My place isn't, there's 5 million people in my city. But there's a small gym 2 minutes away from where I work, I just had no time to train. But I have it now, so next week it start

[–]rugged792 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


Made a point to a guy who got engaged to his girl, but always wanted to "look but don't touch."

People in relationships, all they want to do is "see."

Single people, all they want to do is "be seen."

[–]Andrea_Arlolski17 points18 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Evolutionarily women should be hornier when in a place with a degree of different genes.

[–]Mangasbzo70 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This guy gets it

[–]RedLegendx16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They thirst for a stranger’s alpha cock.

[–]throwinghthisoneaway7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes they absolutely do. All women traveling no they have logistics and plausible deniability down because no one else but their friends were there

[–]Schniattle5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Absolutely they do. Here’s some examples

I’m about to go to New York for the first time to visit some friends I’ve met through work.

I messaged one of my female friends who’s originally from New York and has been traveling the world for the past year. At one point I mentioned that I was excited to finally meet these guys and go somewhere I’ve never been before. But wasn’t intending to go partying or anything like that.

Her exact response was “WTF is wrong with you? Do you really think I’ve gone to all these places to experience the culture or stupid shit like that”

Another girl I knew did an IG live and talked about this trip to Mexico or something and said “if you ain’t gettin fucked senseless when you’re travel you really ain’t doing shit”

Of course not every girl is as upfront about it as these two, but AWALT.

[–]User-31f64a4e5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


That's part of it for sure, but women are creatures obsessed with status and travel is also conspicuous consumption.

It is women who have to have to keep up with the Joneses, consume to feel good about themselves, wear expensive clothes to show off their class and status. Men are more like Sam Walton, a billionaire who was happy to drive around in a 15 year old F-150.

Like Prada purses and red-bottomed Christian Louboutin shoes, travel is a way to show off.

Women don't quietly go abroad. They put a million pictures on their instagram about it, buy obvious souvenirs, and like to name-drop all the places they have been. It's almost as if they want to tell everyone, "Look at me, I'm rich, I went around the world."

So ... women travel to demonstrate status, not just to be sluts.

[–]FereallyRed4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

They are animals.

[–]omega_dawg93-3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

yes, they are. and the LITERALLY have a button (clitoris) for sex... it's a natural on/off switch.

[–]red_matrix2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

There’s no one to slut shame them, or hold it over their head, spread rumors, etc. So yes - women will fuck like crazy when they travel, it’s the cock carousel, no regrets, and they’ll want to raw dog it too.

[–]gtphanta2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't usually post on here but this showed up on my front page... and it's oddly relevant. I don't think it's got anything to do with the women (well not only the women). Our psychology (male and female) changes a lot when we're around different people, whether strangers or people we know. I was just commenting to a friend how when I go travelling (bus/tour etc) I make a point of sitting by myself so that I can interact more with strangers. Whenever I've just sat with my friends, I'm much more focussed on them and other people don't speak to us as much as when we sit alone. I think travelling far from home just takes this to another level - where we feel we can be someone else, or maybe aren't as constrained by our fears.

[–]cafeitalia2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You were very hot looking with a great body and personality, so they wanted to have sex with you.

What do you expect from 18-20 year olds? They don't need to be backpacking to crave some dick. It is a daily ritual, just like a 18-20 year old boy craving some pussy.

[–]DirtyBastard133 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]cudder171 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Holy shit lmao

[–]amwfhunter1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]Fulp_Piction1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Women are all about theor reputation. Take away the threat of people she knows finding out she was being a hoe and there you go.

[–]Moldy_Gecko1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'll say that there are plenty of men that travel solely for sex as well. I mean, that's what 90% of the dudes travelling to Thailand do. Everyone wants to have fun when they travel. It's just that we don't get shamed when we fuck around, in the states or abroad. However, chicks are always getting judged by their friends/coworkers/whatever if they are sluts. So, they get a nice chance to fuck around freely while they travel which I think gives the perception that they're only there to fuck.

[–]Iceklimber1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]StopGaming12341 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I read through that whole post and now have terminal cancer.

Only 10% of the people there kind of "got it".

The rest are white knights and other girls calling the boyfriend "controlling" her.

He did the best rational decision. Female, 22, travels to europe for 2 months with her slutty single friend.

Even though the intention of the girlfriend seems not to be sleeping around, we all know how quickly the mind of a girl can change. Especially since the female friend admits on planning to slut around on the vacation.

[–]montana123451 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Is traveling a red flag?

[–]Bagul_demon2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]koozmaa0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

She wants something magical to happen so she can tell all of their friends about it when she gets back home!

[–]spartan_samurai0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes women do travel for dick.

There is no feeling of guilt as no one is judging them. In their mind they feel entitled to the pleasure and excitement of sexual encounters with strangers.

[–]FutureSquall0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

The same ones who do it are probably the same ones who bitch about men going to South America to do the same thing.

[–]wsuofd0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

hoes in different area codes. 🤷‍♂️

[–]Son0fMan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Unpopular opinion here and maybe what you're looking for.

As someone who's driven for Lyft for almost a year in a tourist heavy city, I can firmly say that most women travel for the same exact reasons men do. I've met plenty of attractive women who have not hooked up while traveling.

Yes, there is something alluring about strange dick to them, and they feel sexually liberated/free from judging eyes so they are more open to hookups, but it is NOT the main reason most women travel. They travel for business, festivals, and concerts just like us men, believe it or not.

[–]Acerhand0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol no. All the guys here saying women travel to whore it up are also just anger phase. Do some women travel JUST to get laid? Yes Do some women even do sex tourism specifically? Yes. The percentage of women doing that are small. Tiny.

Women travel and it sets the ripe conditions for them to act out their sexuality and sexual strategy. It is not really a conscious. She is just going to maximise opportunity, minimise repercussion. Simple.

Right guy, right time, right place.

Women travel for the same reason as men all the time.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, isn't anybody going to talk about Friends reference here ?

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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