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Do you ever bring her into the fold of strategy?

August 6, 2016

I really took to Patrice O'Neal's black phillip as a digest of everything I needed to know about TRP. It isn't perfect but utilizing 80% of it has made my life so much better. I want to focus on one thing Patrice was fond of doing with his LTR that is not covered much on TRP and comes up in my mind alot.

Where is the line for when you start indulging a girl in the strategy you are using to get what you want from her, yourself and in your life in general? On one hand you have the opportunity to show you are dead serious, a leader, willing to do whatever it takes while giving her the opening to step up as well but on the other hand my gut tells me you never give them even a glimpse of your patterns because if they adapt you're just making your life harder.

What is your experience with this?

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Title Do you ever bring her into the fold of strategy?
Author demilitarizdsm
Upvotes 6
Comments 7
Date August 6, 2016 2:48 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/do-you-ever-bring-her-into-the-fold-of-strategy.109351
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[–]GC0W306 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't show your woman your hand in the realm of sexual strategy and gaming her or others.

If you run a business and call upon her for support, entertaining clients, planning logistics, whatever, you can share those plans with her.

It is best not to involve women in work, etc, but if that is the score, so be it.

To the extent that you can, make it look like you are good at everything. She should think that you are a 'natural' at your job and hobbies. That makes her moist.

To show uncertainty or incompetence makes all things with women harder.

[–]TheOrangePlll2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Patrices entire game revolved around defeating bitches with logic. Thats the reason he can explain everything so well. He went extremely far in explaining to women why they were in the wrong for doing a certain thing. This can obviously work but only if you have the amount of levels to your game that patrice had. The redpill way of dealing with it is much more covert and a lot easier to do. E.g. instead of explaining to them what they did wrong, just give them less attention or up your dread game.

Patrice's philosophy and redpill are theoretically the same, they just handle things in a different way.

You have to decide which philosophy you want to follow. Do you want to always battle women with logic, or do you want to let your actions speak for you.

[–]SamichezPrez1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Trust your gut

[–]lord-denning1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Always be gaming...in terms of life goals, make it look 80% effortless, like you are a magician. Show through 20% that it it hard work so she can also be impressed with that.

If she is involved in your business, that is the time to be completely up front so she knows how she can help.

As for getting what you want from her, those cards you never show. Women want their relationships to smack of fate and astrology, not your tactics.

[–]antariusz2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. All that matters is the end result. The wife of a C average med student that graduates and the wife of the A+ gifted and talented med student that graduate both consider themselves "married to doctors"

All she cares about is results. Nobody, man or woman alike, likes to know how sausage is made.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Where is the line for when you start indulging a girl in the strategy you are using to get what you want from her

Absolutely never, this is a retarded thing to do. What is this, confessional? Where you confess that you manipulated her and she forgives you and you live happily ever after because she loves you for YOU? Don't be a fucking retard.

Tell her nothing. Just do what works.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I will sometimes tell a girl "You're doing X for Y reason," to try and lead her away from whatever stupid shit she's pulling, but never anything like "I'm dreading you, now, because you're getting too comfortable and entitled."

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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