FWB has been pushing for LTR. Buys a LOT of shit for me. But hasn't given sex in weeks, and has been crazy emotional over past few weeks as I withdrew my attention. And when I had a talk with her about it, turned it into a giant "Oh, that's all you want from me" shit.

Now, when she was having sex with me, I rewarded it with attention and affection. When I withdrew because I stopped getting rewarded, she flipped, so I applied dread. She showed up other night as I told her I'd rather go out with my friends than deal with her silliness. She begged me to stay home, and that she'd be right over. She brought 100's of dollars worth of shit for me for valentine's (her gift hasn't arrived, but was only $50, wtf?), but then proceeded to not have sex, and the next day, same thing.

But then all over me again the day after, when she went to work, over text, about loving me and future together, and then BOOM, emotional shit that broke down to: Sometimes I don't want to have sex, but I am still entitled to all your attention and affection".

Normally I'd say I was the BB, but I'm actually a 30yo divorcee with two kids, back in college, and she is 21, and her daddy got her a job with him at a nuclear power plant making 8k a month before taxes to sit and do nothing all day. She wants and expects no money from me, I am convinced, as she is a 5 and I'm a 7, that she just feels that she can't get someone better looking (I'm short, but very well built, badass look, and very well respected among not just my peers, but professors; also, I took her virginity).

Does she value me for my looks and status? If so, she'd be having sex with me happily. Or does she see value in what I bring to the table after graduation? She was raised on a farm, always working and doesn't seem like a golddigger.

WTF is going on here, and how can I more easily distinguish between a shit test and a comfort test? And is continued dread the way to go, or was I supposed to give into some emotional demand awhile back?