I want to preface this by saying my previous relationships I've never had any trouble getting a girl to follow my lead. Anyway on to my masculine ex...

Now by hyper masculine I don't mean she talked like a dude, dressed like a dude, or did male hobbies. But she would NEVER give in/ fall in line/ apologize/ comply/ submit in ANY way. I would say I held pretty good frame the entire relationship. I called her out on her shitty behaviour and applied dread when she continued to act up. Anyway I think the only time she came close to submitting is after she had stormed out of my house one night after she tried to get me to engage in in a verbal argument (I just ignored), when she realised she couldn't get me to engage she yelled "this is bullshit, I'm leaving!" Then proceeded to slowly pack her stuff in her overnight bag (hoping I would go beta and be like "no baby, please stay! we can work this out") then when she finally left to drive home I locked the door behind her, she drove off but came back 10 minutes later. She did all sorts of crazy girl behaviours from ringing my doorbell for 10 minutes straight, to calling me trying to say that I was giving her PTSD from a previous relationship where she got locked out of an ex's house. Anyway it took literally an hour and a half on the phone of me telling her that I wouldnt let her back in my house unless she apologized for her shit behaviour... FINALLY after that hour and a half she caved and said sorry, but it didn't even sound sincere at all. Anyway that was probably the most compliance I got from her the entire relationship.

Hell she wouldn't even follow me... Like literally. Whether at a concert or a grocery store, I would tell her we are going to leave and I would lead us out, she'd follow for a few seconds then she'd go ADD mode and go look at something shiny instead of following me. This happened all the fucking time, I don't think she consciously knew why she was doing it, but it was obvious to me she didn't want to 'comply' by allowing me to dictate where and when we were going to walk somewhere.

So I think there are 3 main things at play that caused her to have such a HUGE adverse reaction to submitting to a man was: 1. She had big time daddy issues. She basically hated her father until she was 26 (he paid zero attention to her as a child, they basically didn't have a relationship until a couple of years ago). So I feel like since she didn't respect her father her whole life, which in turn set her up to not respect ANY men in her life. 2. She was in a profession that required her to boss people around (she was a doctor) 3. She had been brainwashed by 3rd wave feminism (she wasnt the full blown short dyed hair with a septum peircing type), just more of a "I'm a strong independent woman who don't need no man" type.

Anyway I wanted to ask the red pill comunnity; 1. Have you ever had to deal with a woman who wouldn't comply no matter how strong your frame was and no matter how alpha you were in the relationship? 2. Is there anything at all that i could have done to get her to fall into line and follow my lead?