Ex-plate hits me up now that she's 29

SirKolbath · 2019-11-24T15:39:11+00:00

Pretty much any reply will seem butthurt. You handled it correctly to ignore it.

I consider women to be not too dissimilar from the homeless dude under the overpass near the baseball stadium in Seattle. When you walk past they'll yell anything to get your attention, and it has about as much relevance to my day.

The real question is why she can still contact you. I'd have blocked her after she went cold on me. I don't have time for that.

collegeguy115 · 2019-11-24T15:20:41+00:00

If you're not attracted to her dont fuck her. Simple as that. No need to be petty

itiswr1tten · 2019-11-24T16:21:31+00:00

Being spiteful comes from a place of ego. If you're really the guy you want to be, you move on.

MotiMorphosys · 2019-11-24T15:20:19+00:00

I'd leave it on read at this point.

I've been in that situation as well, and it's always best to do what women do when they're not interested. Be nice and act like you would be interested, but always be too busy.

you get to have your cake and eat it too. You're not being mean, you're fucking with her, and you're getting the attention of her hitting you up repeatedly. It's fun!

imtheoneimmortal · 2019-11-25T00:33:03+00:00

You don’t have to answer You can answer in 2 years

rugged79 · 2019-11-24T16:44:00+00:00

Eh.

The bitch hit the wall. Not only did she hit the wall, she hit that wall in the midst of drinking, eating straight garbage, and fucking dudes she wanted to fuck back when she was skinny. Now, due to treating her body like trash, she's washed up and trying to hit you up.

The reality of it is, she'll never be prettier than she was when you first met her. The only thing she can do to salvage the situation is to discover Yoga and Pilates or a salad. That shit has nothing to do with you though. If you got plates spinning, you're winning.

So, yeah. Block that bish and move on.

TheStumblingWolf · 2019-11-24T15:59:55+00:00

You don't owe her an explanation, and if you do give her one, why do you feel like you have to justify yourself to her?

PhaedrusHunt · 2019-11-24T18:51:12+00:00

I had a similar situation but it was with an ex LTR not a plate.

I hadn't seen her in a couple of years and the last time I had seen her was a big fuck frenzy, and she had still been really hot (she was a couple years older than me so when we first started going out when I was 20 and she was 22 and she had a lot more experience and a psychological edge on me, mostly that my dick did all the thinking at that time).

But she was going to come into town to stay with me and I was looking forward to it. I'm thinking at that time I was 24 or 5 and she was 26 or 7.

Well she came in the door and she was a different person. She gained a lot of weight due to some psych meds she was on of course, and the look in her eye was not the fiery fun person I remembered. My dick went Lloyd Irvin level limp.

I let her stay and she came on to me that night but I just brush it off. The next day she said directly that she had been trying to have sex with me the night before, and I told her that at this point I think that we are better off as just friends.

This is an LTR and someone that I actually cared about. I'm a pretty polite person southern hospitality and all that, so I was cordial with her. But If it had been just a former plate I probably would not have even let her stay the night.

Some more thing about a year ago. And ex that I had a really bad breakup with sent an email asking to meet up for coffee knowing full well I was in an LTR. The same typical, slutty, cut throat behavior that made our relationship such a dumpster fire.

I had absolutely no regard for her or her feelings but I still sent a polite email back declining and wishing her well.

A plate is a different story.

This woman ghosted you and disrespected you. She missed the ship. She's already suffering plenty, I promise. She knows that she's hurtling towards the wall with a giant splat. Your rejection is the splat.

You don't need to crush these women. They crush themselves.

I would say either nothing or if I wrote her back at all something along the lines of hey hope you're doing well, we had good times but I'm in a different place now and not interested in dating you. Take care.

That type of thing will drive her way crazier than any mean text you can send, and it won't have a negative effect on your reputation.

NolanKnowstheTruth · 2019-11-24T19:46:13+00:00

Tell her that you'll meet up with her "As friends". Women hate that more than men do.

Whisper · 2019-11-24T21:02:58+00:00

It's not important whether you seem butthurt or not. If you don't want anything from her, then her opinion doesn't matter.

Either say nothing, or go with simple honesty, phrased in a non-spiteful fashion: "I no longer find you attractive."

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-11-24T20:26:10+00:00

Don't waste your time. 'fucking with them' shows you're invested in some way and is low status behaviour.

Move on. She fucked you around. She gets no attention.

Move....on

Be-dr · 2019-11-24T15:11:49+00:00

Stuff like this gives me more joy than sex. Love crushing their massive egos

Bleu_Cheese_Pursuits · 2019-11-24T17:04:57+00:00

If you really have nothing better to do and have some vindictiveness quota to satisfy, meet up with her and friendzone her. But frankly if you're taking TRP to heart you should have something better to do (i.e. your mission)

AnneStaz · 2019-11-24T16:34:18+00:00

Dont be mean to her dude, I understand you may be offended but let that shit go. If you have that mentality you'll hurt yourself more often than not

antidoxdevice · 2019-11-24T15:49:22+00:00

I know a revenge text is super tempting but best to avoid it. Just say you didnt feel you two clicked and youre kinda seeing someone right now that you like

liquorbaron · 2019-11-24T18:30:04+00:00

You did the right thing just leaving it on read. Just block her now.

casemodz · 2019-11-24T19:35:07+00:00

Try to get a free dinner out of it?

FereallyRed · 2019-11-24T20:40:49+00:00

Stay within your own frame.

mrpoopistan · 2019-11-24T22:03:43+00:00

Anyone fuck with them for your amusement?

That's usually my jam, but the ones who come back to the well aren't a lot of fun. They're just sad.

I had a girl from HS hit me up a few years ago, and it was mostly just weird. I went with "I'm seeing someone" as my out, and she pretty much interrogated me as to whether it was a proper GF-BF relationship or if it was something she could step in between. Eventually, I stopped replying because it was all just weird and sad.

PayneGreyWolf · 2019-11-24T17:06:21+00:00

lol fuck that bitch. In your shoes I probably couldn't resist the urge to send some slick shit, but leaving her on read is probably the best thing to do. Basically her fat ass hit the wall and the last time she saw you she viewed you as a beta provider/nice guy. Now that she's forced to settle because she's going into her 30s fat and isn't getting the attention from guys that she used to (and doesn't have many stable options) she's hoping you still have some feelings for her.

ppanthero · 2019-11-24T18:17:50+00:00

No response was the right response. You answered your problem correctly yourself.

Pelikahn · 2019-11-24T20:13:36+00:00

It's best left simply at "read". She will get the hint, and worst case scenario she sends you childish anger outlash text messages that you can share for laughs and as a warning to less experienced men.

FleshPanda · 2019-11-24T22:42:31+00:00

This happens to me every six months or so. Some chick from years past sees I'm successful and his me up wanting a free ride. Hard pass.

Myagooshki4004 · 2019-11-24T23:00:37+00:00

Ask her "are you still fat". Have her send pics for verification. Tada.

redepicw · 2019-11-24T16:19:44+00:00

Leave it at that. Sending a snappy hurtful text is a low value move. You can do much better.

jrr6415sun · 2019-11-24T19:04:48+00:00

Don’t call her fat that’s just being mean for no reason

Lib-Tears-in-my-cup · 2019-11-24T17:11:07+00:00

Pump and dump just for the giggles.

whammyface · 2019-11-24T23:41:34+00:00

“I pursued you for a long time and You had your chance and now that the male attention is drying up you’re trying to drink from An old well. I’m not your plan b. Best of luck.”

Spaghetti1776 · 2019-11-24T23:52:01+00:00

“Because you’re only hitting me up because you’re almost thirty and you’re looks are going to go down the drain pretty soon.”

Jabbermouth · 2019-11-24T16:31:53+00:00

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hoopingblob · 2019-11-24T16:09:58+00:00

Just block her and delete her number.

ImplodedVeggies · 2019-11-24T17:52:04+00:00

“I think we are focused on different goals”

“We are on different paths”

“A lots changed”

Or just don’t respond, where the hell is your abundance

SemperPrimus · 2019-11-24T18:33:34+00:00

just say youre seeing someone

L0nerizm · 2019-11-24T19:00:31+00:00

I don’t see how being a dick to her accomplishes anything

huey764 · 2019-11-24T19:11:56+00:00

Who cares if she thinks you are butthurt. As long as you arent actually butthurt, say what you want.

smirk_addict · 2019-11-24T19:34:55+00:00

She communicated to you that you weren’t a priority to her. That you had low value or she just took your interest for granted. Which is what girls do. Now she’s reaching out to you because her options are dwindling down as she approaches the wall and she hopes you don’t remember how she treated you before. You could’ve checked on this for her to even have the nerve to reach out to you. At least she’d know you’re not some chump that lets that shit ride. Or you could’ve just blocked her number. But you want to make a comment about her being fat? Come on dude. If that’s where you mind is at I’d just leave it alone.

XT3M3 · 2019-11-24T20:25:10+00:00

why would anyone with options even entertain this?

ThisIsWhyTrumpWins · 2019-11-24T20:38:28+00:00

“No means no. Respect my bodily autonomy.”

CanadaIsC0ld · 2019-11-25T02:49:47+00:00

Just be plain and honest without being rude. I have found this to work perfect for me, no need to block any thot. I'd tell her "because depending on the last time I saw you I don't think I'd be attracted enough to you... Sorry"

Meloxian · 2019-11-25T03:02:38+00:00

Dick quick then dip

AWALT99 · 2019-11-25T14:36:40+00:00

Sorry for hijacking this post. Just wanted to share my story and also get some advice for pushing forward after a breakup. Me (34 M) recently came out of a nasty breakup with my ex (25 F) two months ago. Met online, chatted for a while and finally went on our first date. A few weeks later she came to my apartment. By the 2nd date she was sucking my dick like her life depended on it, deepthroating and all and she even let me cum in her mouth and she swallowed. I was kinda disgusted when she swallowed that quick but who cares I liked it. She made a comment that pissed me off, saying she doesn't like the taste of cum its too salty but mine isn't..I knew I was probably dealing with a slut but anyway. She didn't give it up that day since she had the period but eventually gave it up by the 3rd date. We became official 3 months later, didn't live together or anything. She had too many red flags which made me wonder why I would commit to someone like that. Unstable personality which she tends to blame on her abusive ex.. Of course they never blame themselves. We dated from December 2018 until September 2019. Things started deteriorating since May 2019, and I noticed she was pulling away being slightly cold, takes a lot of time responding to texts 8 hrs when she's at work and blaming in it on being busy..also withholding sexually.. I called her out on it - mistake. Then I told her over the phone that I wanted to end it. She said she doesn't want to and she asked to come here so we can mend things etc of course typical female manipulation she came here and promised she will change etc and me like a good beta gave her a chance.. 3 weeks later didn't notice much improvement. Waited for her to come here gave me a blowjob and fucked her ass till I tore it up and came inside etc I was mad af. After she left I told her it was over.. She said she knew I was gonna do that and asked if she can still come from time to time. I said yes but don't expect anything non-physical. She came on August 8 and before entering the apartment she freaked out and wanted to leave and told me she wasn't sure what my intentions were and she was afraid i was planning something lol straight up psycho and she ran towards the elevator panicking and shaking, she said she just wants to sit down at the lobby. We sat down for almost 3 hours complete waste of my time then she took an uber and went home. She never came again until begining of September. During that time all we were talking about is how she doesn't trust me and some horseshit, she is always projecting her abusive past onto me, which was something I noticed very early as a red flag but ignored. During the 1 month+ period we didn't see each other she sometimes initiated contact during that period but we would go 2 or 3 days without contact. Finally she came begining of September and by that time I guess we were both checked out of the relationship, few days later on September 13 she calls me in the morning while I was at work and started telling me your tone is aggressive and you are rude rn etc then we hung up. THIS is the interesting part. I sent her a text immediately telling her its over and I can't put up with her crap anymore. Then headed to a meeting shortly after. When I got out of the meeting there was still no response, I called her a few times- ask me why!! Then sent her other messages saying if u don't respond by 11am you are blocked and I don't wanna hear your voice again. Next thing I know is her blocking me on whatsapp lol. Then I go ahead and send her text messages saying why would u block me? And told her am coming to your work to grab coffee and talk about things- she freaked out calling me and panicking and telling me she called the police blah blah then she said she will call me after work. So she calls me at 5pm and asks if we can meet. I told her where to come, so we meet at a coffee shop and she says how scared she is etc same old crap. Then she went home and I went home. The next day she calls me asking if she can come to my house. So she comes and tells me the relationship is over, you eneded it yesterday and I agree I don't want a relationship with you after what you did yesterday. I said fine. I was calm af and didn't show any emotion. She then said she wants to be FWB ans asked if I wanted to fuck. I said no thanks maybe another time, it bruised her ego and she asked me are you sure? I said yes. But I'll let you know when I want. She said Ok. Then she left. We talked at night and I had a few drinks then went all beta over the phone telling her I don't want that FWB shit. Then she tried to convince me, eventually told her I will see. Next day I told her I will only be Ok with it if we were exclusive, she said Ok and we left it at that. At the point I was already in the gym for 2 weeks, lost 13lbs and continued focusing on my self, eating healthy, lifting, sleeping well etc then I took a week off work to go to California, before I left I texted her so we can meet up the Saturday after I came back, and asked her to confirm via text. She called me to wish me a good trip and said she will check her schedule at work and confirm. I said Ok. 4 days later, I had drunk called her at 5pm, she didn't answer, called again at 8pm she didn't answer as she was still at work. Alcohol tricked me into texting her saying why are u not answering all that crap and then told her forget about our fwb arrangement. She calls me shortly after and we talked for a bit then hung up. The next morning I send her a series of beta messages. Including screenshots of texts between me and my female cousin, who asked about how my relationship was, I told her we are no longer together etc and that since my dad's diagnosis I haven't been the same person and treated my gf bad and I rarely cry but I am crying because I could lose my dad at any time etc some bullshif beta stuff that I still don't understand why I sent. Anyway, she says are u sending me this to try and get back with me using your dad as an excuse. The drunk me said yes, from there we started an argument and she insults me and I insulted her back it was ugly, she then said I believe the screenshots were made up, u have free time in your hands and sitting there obsessing about me lol.. Anyway we end it there. Next day i call her and the same thing we get into an argument and she has a mental breakdown and gets her dad on the phone to ask me not to contact again. She blocked my number the same day. I then relapsed into my old drinking habits and start calling/texting from different numbers. I called and texted over a period of weeks every time while under the influence. She eventually changed her number. A week later I call her office and she didn't wanna talk -obviously. Now she's on that pedestal. I then threaten to call her family and tell them we had a sexual relationship. She comes from a religious family. So I call and spoke with her parents and told them. That same day they called my family and asked them to make me stop or they will go to the police. I stayed quite until two weeks later when I sent her an e-mail to her work e-mail. I fucking hate alcohol man. Makes me do some dumb shit. Anyway while I was randomly looking to see if they filed anything against me, I went online and looked up my name and saw that they tried to file for a peace order against me the same day they called my family but it was denied due to lack of sufficient evidence. Since then I cut the alcohol and just focusing on my self. It was quite an experience. This is not something that I would normally do, but this bitch has a way of making people act this way, what's funny is that her ex did the exact same thing but he took it a step further and went to her houss until her father and brother got involved. I should have heeded the message from the very begining when she was paranoid at the begining of the relationship and telling me about all the stories about her ex. What do you suggest now, going monk mode for a while and focus on myself, my job, and kicking addiction, staying in the gym etc and leave gaming women until I have stabilized a little bit and forgot this relationship. It seems I secretly developed onitis in the process without even noticing. Onitis is a bitch man. I have been very distracted at work and life in general, it seems that this hoe was taking a lot of my time and I somehow became a codependent bitch! Whats your advice in getting over this quickly and move on?

lazydogg9 · 2019-11-25T16:01:21+00:00

" The same reason you didn't wanna meet last time when I asked you."

MattyAnon · 2019-11-25T16:45:21+00:00

Going through exes now that she's hitting the wall?

Exactly.

"Fuck.... getting old..... I know! Jim! Jim wasn't so bad! He always respected me.... he'd be happy to settle down with me.... I wouldn't even have to have sex with him very much, he did always say that love is the most important thing........ Hi Jim, how's it going?"

I want to say "Because you were fat last time I saw you" or "Because I don't fuck fat girls" but then it looks like I'm butthurt and trying to get back at her for denying me a year earlier.

Haha..... or "I really like you and we'd be great together... and I know that many men really like BBW's, but I'm sorry I'm just not into that".

Anyone fuck with them for your amusement?

I would, so long as I'm free from any social repercussions.

ChadTheWaiter100 · 2019-11-25T17:57:35+00:00

Tell her all that extra poundage has tipped her over the scale to exceed your weight limit.

AWALT99 · 2019-11-25T19:31:58+00:00

Sorry for hijacking this post. Just wanted to share my story and also get some advice for pushing forward after a breakup.

Me (34 M) recently came out of a nasty breakup with my ex (25 F) two months ago.Met online, chatted for a while and finally went on our first date. A few weeks later she came to my apartment. By the 2nd date she was sucking my dick like her life depended on it, deepthroating and all and she even let me cum in her mouth and she swallowed.

I was kinda disgusted when she swallowed that quick but who cares I liked it. She made a comment that pissed me off, saying she doesn't like the taste of cum its too salty but mine isn't..I knew I was probably dealing with a slut but anyway. She didn't give it up that day since she had the period but eventually gave it up by the 3rd date.

We became official 3 months later, didn't live together or anything. She had too many red flags which made me wonder why I would commit to someone like that. Unstable personality which she tends to blame on her abusive ex.. Of course they never blame themselves.

We dated from December 2018 until September 2019. Things started deteriorating since May 2019, and I noticed she was pulling away being slightly cold, takes a lot of time responding to texts 8 hrs when she's at work and blaming in it on being busy..also withholding sexually.. I called her out on it - mistake.

Then I told her over the phone that I wanted to end it. She said she doesn't want to and she asked to come here so we can mend things etc of course typical female manipulation she came here and promised she will change etc and me like a good beta gave her a chance.. 3 weeks later didn't notice much improvement. Waited for her to come here gave me a blowjob and fucked her ass till I tore it up and came inside etc I was mad af.

After she left I told her it was over.. She said she knew I was gonna do that and asked if she can still come from time to time. I said yes but don't expect anything non-physical.

She came on August 8 and before entering the apartment she freaked out and wanted to leave and told me she wasn't sure what my intentions were and she was afraid i was planning something lol straight up psycho and she ran towards the elevator panicking and shaking, she said she just wants to sit down at the lobby.

We sat down for almost 3 hours complete waste of my time then she took an uber and went home. She never came again until begining of September. During that time all we were talking about is how she doesn't trust me and some horseshit, she is always projecting her abusive past onto me, which was something I noticed very early as a red flag but ignored.

During the 1 month+ period we didn't see each other she sometimes initiated contact during that period but we would go 2 or 3 days without contact. Finally she came begining of September and by that time I guess we were both checked out of the relationship, few days later on September 13 she calls me in the morning while I was at work and started telling me your tone is aggressive and you are rude rn etc then we hung up. THIS is the interesting part.

I sent her a text immediately telling her its over and I can't put up with her crap anymore. Then headed to a meeting shortly after. When I got out of the meeting there was still no response, I called her a few times- ask me why!! Then sent her other messages saying if u don't respond by 11am you are blocked and I don't wanna hear your voice again. Next thing I know is her blocking me on whatsapp lol.

Then I go ahead and send her text messages saying why would u block me? And told her am coming to your work to grab coffee and talk about things- she freaked out calling me and panicking and telling me she called the police blah blah then she said she will call me after work. So she calls me at 5pm and asks if we can meet. I told her where to come, so we meet at a coffee shop and she says how scared she is etc same old crap.

Then she went home and I went home. The next day she calls me asking if she can come to my house. So she comes and tells me the relationship is over, you eneded it yesterday and I agree I don't want a relationship with you after what you did yesterday. I said fine. I was calm af and didn't show any emotion. She then said she wants to be FWB ans asked if I wanted to fuck. I said no thanks maybe another time, it bruised her ego and she asked me are you sure? I said yes.

But I'll let you know when I want. She said Ok. Then she left. We talked at night and I had a few drinks then went all beta over the phone telling her I don't want that FWB shit. Then she tried to convince me, eventually told her I will see. Next day I told her I will only be Ok with it if we were exclusive, she said Ok and we left it at that.

At the point I was already in the gym for 2 weeks, lost 13lbs and continued focusing on my self, eating healthy, lifting, sleeping well etc then I took a week off work to go to California, before I left I texted her so we can meet up the Saturday after I came back, and asked her to confirm via text. She called me to wish me a good trip and said she will check her schedule at work and confirm. I said Ok.

4 days later, I had drunk called her at 5pm, she didn't answer, called again at 8pm she didn't answer as she was still at work. Alcohol tricked me into texting her saying why are u not answering all that crap and then told her forget about our fwb arrangement. She calls me shortly after and we talked for a bit then hung up. The next morning I send her a series of beta messages.

Including screenshots of texts between me and my female cousin, who asked about how my relationship was, I told her we are no longer together etc and that since my dad's diagnosis I haven't been the same person and treated my gf bad and I rarely cry but I am crying because I could lose my dad at any time etc some bullshif beta stuff that I still don't understand why I sent.

Anyway, she says are u sending me this to try and get back with me using your dad as an excuse. The drunk me said yes, from there we started an argument and she insults me and I insulted her back it was ugly, she then said I believe the screenshots were made up, u have free time in your hands and sitting there obsessing about me lol.. Anyway we end it there. Next day i call her and the same thing we get into an argument and she has a mental breakdown and gets her dad on the phone to ask me not to contact again.

She blocked my number the same day. I then relapsed into my old drinking habits and start calling/texting from different numbers. I called and texted over a period of weeks every time while under the influence. She eventually changed her number. A week later I call her office and she didn't wanna talk -obviously.

Now she's on that pedestal. I then threaten to call her family and tell them we had a sexual relationship. She comes from a religious family. So I call and spoke with her parents and told them. That same day they called my family and asked them to make me stop or they will go to the police. I stayed quite until two weeks later when I sent her an e-mail to her work e-mail.

I fucking hate alcohol man. Makes me do some dumb shit. Anyway while I was randomly looking to see if they filed anything against me, I went online and looked up my name and saw that they tried to file for a peace order against me the same day they called my family but it was denied due to lack of sufficient evidence.

Since then I cut the alcohol and just focusing on my self. It was quite an experience. This is not something that I would normally do, but this bitch has a way of making people act this way, what's funny is that her ex did the exact same thing but he took it a step further and went to her houss until her father and brother got involved.

I should have heeded the message from the very begining when she was paranoid at the begining of the relationship and telling me about all the stories about her ex.

What do you suggest now, going monk mode for a while and focus on myself, my job, and kicking addiction, staying in the gym etc and leave gaming women until I have stabilized a little bit and forgot this relationship. It seems I secretly developed onitis in the process without even noticing. Onitis is a bitch man. I have been very distracted at work and life in general, it seems that this hoe was taking a lot of my time and I somehow became a codependent bitch! Whats your advice in getting over this quickly and move on?

anxiousdweller · 2019-11-26T19:30:43+00:00

Do what makes you truly happy. That is to say, be honest with her, and then accept and love yourself regardless of her reaction. You simply tell her, "Two years ago you went cold. I initiated a year later and you didn't want to meet. Now that it seems you're out of options you are asking me to hang again but it seems like you're only using me, and I'm not interested in people who don't love themselves or don't love me."

You need the ability to be honest with and conscious of yourself. Discover and admit your true motivations. Accept that they are in you… and keep working to practice the teachings you know are good and which you need in order to fill up your points of lacking.

Live for yourself, and be honest. Other top-voted commenters here who are talking about how your reply will seem need to ask themselves why their advice includes being concerned about that.

MVWeiss · 2019-12-16T21:26:26+00:00

29 is one year away from 30 which is 10 years away from 40 which is like vaginal death. Tell her you're not into GILFs

menial_optimist · 2019-11-24T18:48:11+00:00

You have no way of knowing what she looks like now. She could have realized she was letting herself go and hit the gym. Its easy to lose 20 pounds in 2 years. Don't stalk her social media pics either because even if she is fat, all the pics will be specifically chosen to make it appear that she isn't. If you thought she was a good lay before, perhaps meet up with her for coffee. If you are unattracted to her, stay for the courtesy chat for 1-2 hours to "catch up" and then exchange pleasantries and say goodbye. Also, if your frame was solid I think you wouldn't be that butthurt as you seem because she went cold years before. This shouldn't be a "how do I get my revenge" type of scenario.

PiperBigBell · 2019-11-24T15:58:05+00:00

This sounds like an attempt to feel superior to her. But where does it end. Do you want her to cry over you? Stalk you? Be jealous. Then what?

If you can text her back with the right spirit, just be honest and say I'm not interested in being second best, and I'm not interested in taking what is no longer the best you have to offer. If she asks more questions give her no hope and be straight. Just be cold and icy.

As men we don't stoop to women's level. We maintain our frame and don't seep into emotionalism

Standgrounding · 2019-11-24T17:15:35+00:00

Send the "you're fat" text for lulzies and tell the story on Reddit.

redxpeace · 2019-11-24T21:07:55+00:00

Fuck it just do it.

Send the i don't fuck fat chicks text

Kingdionethethird · 2019-11-25T00:56:23+00:00

My ex never really had the opportunity to reach out. Blocked on every platform and changed my number.

rambler429 · 2019-11-24T17:48:09+00:00

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Title	Ex-plate hits me up now that she's 29
Author	uireoiu32
Upvotes	181
Comments	96
Date	November 24, 2019 3:10 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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