Back in my reckless scorched earth nihilist days, I used to fuck around with this side chick I manipulated into thinking she was my girlfriend. This chick is pretty homogenous to me, as in near same features and could almost resemble a completely female version of me. I also probably caused her the most drama she has ever had in her life, between the cheating, lying, directly pissing her off for lols and other shit.

Girl, maybe a strong 6 or weak 7, used to be a nerdy/boring college girl that lived a basic life; studying, doing chores, occasional hookup with one of her own plates, lackluster art hobby etc. She was pretty sexually liberal with me to the point I lost interest, and she had to plead and beg but I’d just get bored mid-fuck, go soft and walk away. (I like a little chase/resistance) Regardless, I introduced her to my hobbies at the time and she took to taking up these hobbies and trying to one-up me, I guess as a form of shit testing? I never really gave it thought as I didn’t care and have remained pretty unattached. Did find that the most fun I had with her was consistently pissing her off to the point she would scream like a brat; I instigated this every day because I thought it was hilarious.

Needless to say though I got pissed off at one point and ended things with her. Fast forward a few months and I decided to hook up with her again just for the hell of it. Still was reckless nihilist; I took every risk possible and at one point knocked her up like a moron. It didn’t survive and she cut things off since for good reason after shaming from her parents. (Dodging said bullet brought about wake-up call in me as well)

Fast forward almost two years and she has hit me up again. She has since dived head first into every single one of my old interests; same taste in media, same substances, same old hobbies, subculture and everything. She also has taken to dating a pothead with no ambitions that I know of that is perhaps a milder, tamer version of what I used to be, and I’m pretty sure she’s bored with the guy. She has also taken to consistently dying her hair a specific color I suggested would look very nice on her in one of our last conversations.

Most recently, we briefly chatted in a lounge where I was hanging out with another plate; (let this one break later) I got tipsy and smacked this old plate on the ass on the way out. She attempted to question it via message later but I didn’t acknowledge it. Regardless, she has been consistently sending me Snapchat selfies and texts for the past month, which I’m mostly ignoring approximately 80% of the time (leaving unread for 12hrs+ at a time) as I’ve only hit her up to buy bud during a shitty few weeks in January. I’ve since decided to quit wasting my money on that, and just about lost near all interest in contacting aside from brief moments of boredom.

Not really asking trp what to do here; I’ve mostly removed myself completely from the game for now to do some hardcore self-actualization. More so interested in an analysis: is this alpha widow behavior, or is she horribly attempting to rope me in as an orbiter even though this is contingent on my brief bouts of boredom every 48 hours, and will completely cease as I find more shit to do? I have always been unattached from her, probably wouldn’t mind lining up the fuck if I wasn’t currently allocating those resources elsewhere. Granted if that was a possibility. Input?

TL;DR: Old plate I knocked up once 2 years ago cloning my old behaviors and messaging me consistently. Ignoring her 80%+ of the time; always been unattached. What’s the deal?