(This is a social question not a sexual one).

I’m new to a job and just starting to get comfortable socially there. Last night we had a Halloween party and there was a chick there who I rarely see so I chatted to her a little bit. My general chatting style is to be humorous, teasing and generally confident, and I like to work the other person out. I wasn’t making any sexual advances on her.

Anyway she is ok looking, like a 7 face, good fakies. Atm I’m kinda keen on getting female approval because it is addictive. (This is talked about in No More Mr Nice Guy and I’m working on it).

So later on in the night after we’d had a few discussions and I’d negged her a bit, I was walking over to a table with her and a few others and looked at her and she gave me the most vicious death stare I’ve ever gotten. Looked like a fucking viper lol. It kinda made me feel rejected. I kinda shrugged it off.

After wondering why, I have a feeling that she was intimidated by me because I was working her out. “Exposing” her if you will. And she wanted to protect her image at work. It’s the only thing that makes sense, because I wasn’t mean to her. She used to be a racetrack girl, so I have no question she’s a “bad bitch” at heart, and we work in a field where that wouldn’t really wash.

What I wanted to ask is, have you got a death stare like that and it been a positive indicator of right behaviour? Not that I’m bothered, or am going to change myself, I’d just like to work it out. She’s probably just a drama bitch and I was cocky so she hated me. Could’ve reminded her of an ex.