Went on a date with German chick that I met through some mutual German friends. They come here on temporary work assignments for 7 months or so, then leave. I’ve met around 15-20 German girls before, and I would say they are definitely more conservative than the average American chick (surprise lmao). The mutual friends that we met through, ended up going back home earlier than her, and now she’s basically here alone with no real friends. Coincidently, she starts going to my gym. So one day, we chat a bit, and then we exchange numbers. A week goes by, and I don’t text her because I was busy with other shit. I receive a text from her saying “hey, haven’t seen you in a while at the gym, have you been coming” I say yes, but I go different locations. She responds with oh that makes sense, then I don’t respond anymore. I knew I was going to see her at the gym, so I thought I’d set up the date in person. Fast forward a couple of days, I see her at the gym, and ask her out.

Now onto the date. From the beginning, I start the usual banter, little bit of pushing/pulling. There was kino throughout the whole time. Waist grabbing, thigh, shoulder on shoulder, shoulder on tit. At one point while I was messing with her, I put my forehead on hers, just to test the waters a bit. Lips were pretty close to each other, but it was still early in the date. We stayed like that for a couple of seconds and pulled away laughing. Halfway through the date, she was drinking water. She asks if I want some, I say yes. I take the bottle and drink, but I don’t put my lips on it. She notices and laughs. I laugh and say “why are you laughing” she says “nothing” then I say come here, showing her that I am not disgusted from her, I go for a kiss. She moves her face away. I just play it off, and put head on hers. We pull away again, and laugh it off. I’ve had this happen to me before on first dates, and I was still able to score, So I didn’t think anything of it.

Now the end of the date is coming, and I am walking her to her car. A little chat is going on, and we then arrive. She hugs me saying it was a nice night, blah blah etc. I then grab her hand, try to pull her closer, and tell her to come here while smirking. I sense resistance,so I laugh and say why are you being shy. She says, I am not, i am just being me. I can easily tell that she didn’t want to do anything sexual. So while I am smirking/smiling the whole time, I don’t attempt again after that, and just get her in her car and tell her to drive safe. What threw me off, is that I’ve never left a first date without anything. I’ve done this a million times, and have the AWALT mentality 24/7, but I am not used to this type of girl. Throughout the date, she mentioned a few times how strict her parents were, how there was a lot of rules, and how she would be like that with her kids in the future. Like I said, she’s definitely more reserved than the average American chick by a mile. It didn’t effect me one bit, I still planned on getting something out of the night. There was sexual vibes the whole time, and I guess that’s what threw me off. I never made it obvious that I was thrown off, nor that I was butthurt when she resisted or any time during the night.

I plan on asking her out again by the end of next week, but not sure if I should waste my time on a second date.

Appreciate the input boys.