First night went to her place had her cook for me and ended up smashing she said I was only the 3rd person she ever fucked and she hasn’t ever hooked up outside of a relationship. Fast forward a month later I go back to her place expecting to pick up where we left off but seem to encounter non stop shit tests and her mentioning how she’s “dating” now and she’s not a thottie who opens up her legs for every guy she meets. Some guy even called her while we were hanging out to which she lowered the volume so I couldn’t hear. All attempts to kino and escalate were shut down. I wasn’t feeling the vibe got tired and left.

This is the first time I’ve ever had a girl alone and not smashed. My question is if she wasn’t down to fuck why would she be down with me coming over again? Or was she down and I some how fucked up along the way?