Just got done chatting with a buddy who is close to getting engaged with a girl. He is 35, she is 36... and a virgin. I didnt believe it either, but he got his hand down there and felt the proof.

He has been a player and is looking for a good girl to settle down with. I think he has no plans for kids.

She is a devout evangelistic christian, and like a lot of the people in her extreme church, save themselves for marriage.

I told him that he should not marry her without sex first, and that she will likely have serious pych problems and possible physical problems as well.

What guidance would you give Him? Would you ever consider such a thing?

EDIT - changed a her to him, due to typo