Fuck buddies are great and fun. Low maintenance, good sex.

If you have set a DGAF non-judgemental frame right from the beginning, they tell really intimate and dirty things to you. If you are starting out, some of them may really surprise you - even shock you.

Now I have question regarding about they telling about their on-off relationships with guys who they still have feelings for. The thing which surprises me is that they may be attached to a guy who doesn't exactly know what he wants and regularly leave them or the girl breaks up with them and then the guys beg/ask them back. Now, I only have the word of women about this so I don't know what is that truth behind this but I'm seeing a conflict here with TRP principles. These guys seem to be:

  • Uncertain and/or undecisive what they want (do they want the girl or not)
  • They keep asking her back

For me there is two possible explanations:

  • Girls are hamstering. The fact is that the guy leaves them as they wish and then ask girls back when they want. So they are not actually acting like "betas"

  • Or they seem "unavailable" and keep girls on their toes and therefore keep them excited and interested and provide drama - even the behaviour is somewhat beta.

What do you guys think about this and is there any other aspects? I'm sure that everyone spinning plates encounter this to some degree as well.