Fucked an ugly chick and am pretty disappointed in myself

volvostupidshit · 2020-11-20T10:58:25+00:00

Now she will think she can bag a good looking man without working on herself because of you.

CanadianCamX · 2020-11-20T10:18:22+00:00

I've had the same experience, they are always 25 pounds heavier than their photos lmao. You will feel gross for a week but it will pass

Spartawolf · 2020-11-20T10:39:37+00:00

Most people have a cheat day at some point

1v1rustfaggot69 · 2020-11-20T13:39:39+00:00

Gotta slay a few dragons to get to the princess

cglehosit · 2020-11-20T13:26:17+00:00

Get off dating apps, meet people in person, and you’ll always know what they look like before hand.

ChewinTheFat · 2020-11-20T14:59:28+00:00

Now you just gotta sleep with a hot black girl to get the real experience

tindichin · 2020-11-20T13:17:29+00:00

Literally same thing happened to me last night, i'm feeling like shit whole day today lol. Nice to know I'm not the only one. It will pass.

i-am-the-prize · 2020-11-20T14:41:03+00:00

eating one bad meal won't make you fat, and fucking one fugly chick shouldn't wreck your self esteem.

just note how you feel now (observe the feeling, without judgement) and acknowledge it. then put it down and move on with your life. if you have a weakness again, recall how you felt.

this way you skip the fuglies and the midnight icecream snacks alike. neither is in your best interest in the long run...

Andgelyo · 2020-11-20T13:55:09+00:00

Fuck. I had a few of these before. Fucked some real bottom of the barrel fat whale chicks. Just keep it on the low and don’t tell your boys about it.

izzyinjurious · 2020-11-20T14:11:25+00:00

Gotta have rainy days to enjoy the sunny ones even more

z2a1-9 · 2020-11-20T11:31:46+00:00

Its blue pill conditioning to feel disappointment in yourself and have regret parties.

You were curious, wanted to try something and didnt like it. Move on and dont do things you know you dont like.

hollabomb · 2020-11-20T11:49:06+00:00

Hah! It happens. Some of the best sex I have had is with less attractive girls. Don’t feel bad we have all been there.

Every experience should be a learning experience. Take what you can from it and leave the rest.

Stormrak1993 · 2020-11-20T13:34:41+00:00

My man sometimes you have to go through the weeds in order to get to the roses.

AleLibre · 2020-11-20T13:50:04+00:00

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FlyingPigs3210 · 2020-11-20T17:21:14+00:00

Can’t count to 10 without 1 2 and 3

Whisper · 2020-11-20T17:43:44+00:00

So what?

The women you have fucked don't somehow rub off on you. The only ramifications of fucking an unattractive woman is that you're not going to be as turned on and enjoy yourself as much.

Dempseytysonali · 2020-11-20T14:44:14+00:00

Stop being so sensitive, who gives a fuck. Look at the positive side, you won't lower your standards ever again and now you have a funny story.. "man I fucked a hideous chick once and I couldn't even get out of bed the next day, I was so depressed"

BestVersionOfMyself_ · 2020-11-20T16:20:48+00:00

I would say try to quit the social stigma about "MEN ALWAYS NEEDS SEX". Or TRP's bullshit about "YOU ARE NOT ALPHA ENOUGH IF YOU DON'T FUCK EVERY BITCH" Those are simply not true. Don't fuck someone just because you can say later "I had sex." This thing should be natural, and not because you compete with someone/your ego.

kimmusmaximus · 2020-11-20T21:42:11+00:00

On the bright side, unless you coincidentally share a group of friends, no one that you know will ever find out about it, and you can always plausibly deny if it comes up. In college, I had to live down the shame of fucking a 5/10 bipolar chick who lived in the same dorm as I did, who then proceed to post a picture of us in bed together on Snapchat to literally a quarter of the school.

Fuck, I'm getting a pit in my stomach just typing this again.

usedtimecapsule · 2020-11-20T22:15:04+00:00

Bro really fell for the face only selfies

Ur_X · 2020-11-20T16:24:17+00:00

Charity is important

zephenrage · 2020-11-20T16:59:01+00:00

Dude, I’m in a similar position to yours. I have a friend who is a 6’3 alpha male. He’s lost count of his notches. He’s even banged some of the chicks that I wanted to bang but couldn’t bang myself. I was talking to him one time after I did what you did and hooked up with a chick who wasn’t as hott as what I’m used to. I felt gross and disappointed in myself just like you do right now. He told me he’s also just on the spur of the moment banged a willing chick that he’s not proud of banging too. He said he’d admit it if anyone asks but he’d caveat it with “but I’m not proud of myself” lol. So even higher SMV alphas have been there too and knowing this is what made me feel better and I’ve moved on with that piece of mind. I hope this helps you too.

ElijahBurningWoods · 2020-11-20T15:23:06+00:00

I've fucked to many ugly once because I was horney. It's a faze that passes.

Pen2When · 2020-11-20T18:24:47+00:00

Never harpoon a whale bro, stick with the crazy/hot chicks

downvotesanimals · 2020-11-21T00:19:22+00:00

We've all got a couple o' hogs on the roster, bud. No shame in it.

Anabolic_Window14 · 2020-11-21T00:48:01+00:00

Hey man don’t worry about it. You learned your lesson. This will teach not to do it again because you understand that feeling and shame you get afterwards. The fact that you’re so grossed out by her shows you have standards. Just stick to them next time. Cheers

A_Brown_Crayon · 2020-11-20T11:59:44+00:00

Fuck it bro, walk of fame. That’s more than half the people on this sub.

mickenrorty · 2020-11-20T16:58:51+00:00

I hope you had a reliable condom on you mad lad you

fightclubdevil · 2020-11-20T16:20:13+00:00

Hey man, if it's pink, wet, and warm, it's good. Ugly chicks need dick too. Better than your hand lol. Who cares life is short stick it to her

DEAagent1515 · 2020-11-20T10:34:10+00:00

Hahahahaha we’ve all been there, ugly kitty is better than no kitty

RedwallAllratuRatbar · 2020-11-20T16:48:05+00:00

In my case most regrets of such type were due to slim chance of pregnancy or STD. Hmm, looking at medical statistics, you could probably be hit with the second of the two

gingersimeone · 2020-11-20T17:57:09+00:00

lmao this is hilarious

pehsxten · 2020-11-20T18:02:03+00:00

A muffin top is where I'd have to chop off my dick

psychotropy · 2020-11-20T18:13:29+00:00

We've all been there my dude lol. You're DEFINITELY being too hard on yourself.

Im-Ne-wHere · 2020-11-20T18:49:10+00:00

I’ve got...

ObamasGayNephew · 2020-11-20T19:56:13+00:00

If they don’t post body pics or hide in baggy clothing, sweaters, jackets, etc. they are 99.9% fat.

ElPoniberto117 · 2020-11-20T20:06:46+00:00

Never trust pictures, specially from people not that attractive. Be careful with strange angles, only face pictures, filters, blurry pictures, etc. Double check witn Instagram/Facebook pictures.

da_Crow · 2020-11-20T20:08:00+00:00

Chill, it'll pass. Most men have at least one girl they regret fucking. If it makes you feel any better, my first time was with this almost overweight black girl. Didn't regret it immediately ( a horny 17 year old virgin will fuck almost anything) but it was a lay I definitely will never brag about.

daproest1 · 2020-11-20T20:38:44+00:00

Yeah. Don’t ever do it again. The subconscious is a powerful thing. You’ll start to believe that’s what u deserve.

WakeUpAlreadyDude · 2020-11-21T00:38:26+00:00

I’ve had some really great times with less attractive women. Nothing wrong with charity. Everybody gets something out of it.

2020-11-20T13:51:24+00:00

The grass is brown on both sides bro, if you didn't go you might be sat kicking yourself for not taking an easy lay

willwang2020 · 2020-11-20T14:02:28+00:00

I tried so and believe me, your body is honest, worst sex ever.

decoy88 · 2020-11-20T16:47:05+00:00

Who cares? stop thinking about what your bros might think. You nutted. move on.

2020-11-20T12:50:22+00:00

You had a urge to bust a nut, so busted a nut. I think you should think hard as to why you seem so intent on beating yourself up over it... that's the bigger issue in my eyes. That'll show up in other stuff too. Men sometimes think below the waist, accept it, and laugh about it with the bro's.

DrMaryStone · 2020-11-20T15:37:28+00:00

Don’t worry about. No one is grading you but it can be a bad look if your peers start seeing you bring home whales everyday. That’s just how society works.

If it’s discrete and you enjoyed it then let it be. If you don’t enjoy it then don’t do it again.

cunningcaring · 2020-11-20T18:48:08+00:00

I wonder if she’s thinking the same thing?

Mr_Badass · 2020-11-20T21:05:34+00:00

I wonder what the smell was like, yikes!

ppvknifefight · 2020-11-20T22:59:41+00:00

now you can graduate to an ugly white chick

2020-11-20T14:08:37+00:00

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lolyups · 2020-11-20T15:27:37+00:00

Dude, that sounds awful

TXJohn83 · 2020-11-20T18:09:12+00:00

It happens, just move past it. We all make mistakes or fuck a bitch and regret it.

Homiz88 · 2020-11-20T18:29:52+00:00

In a spiritual level you took her dark energy 😬

dannydawiz · 2020-11-20T18:35:12+00:00

Put it behind you and move on. We all go through it.

ZomCom13 · 2020-11-20T19:52:21+00:00

To each their own, but I couldn't do it. I'd rather just weather the dry spell.

FutureGenyus · 2020-11-20T21:08:52+00:00

Brush it off and do better. A nut is a nut. Her value is only up in her head. Like I tell any chick who brags about such n such dicks down her hallway. That’s nothing special. You aren’t judged on your ability to get dick, fefail. Fefails are judged on their ability to keep a quality man. Most guys have at least one ugly plate.

hedged6161 · 2020-11-20T21:33:27+00:00

It happens man.not something you want to brag about, but it’s part of being on the fast train

OrwellianHell · 2020-11-20T21:49:37+00:00

Get over yourself and enjoy it when you get it.

warthundersfw · 2020-11-21T00:27:10+00:00

Was she a fatty?

Wtfbyamey · 2020-11-21T03:37:05+00:00

Well unless you didnt go down on her , thats okayy

HomeSliceSS · 2020-11-21T04:22:26+00:00

Sometimes I fuck ugly chicks to get my mojo going after going through a cold streak. Helps me get back in the swing of things.

2020-11-21T04:29:59+00:00

Use to have a cheat day back in the day. Got to a point where I refused to touch anything under a 7 and would rather hold my nut in. Covid ruined that and I've had a dry spell for nearly a year. Dangerously close to breaking it just to get the pussy tap flowing again

bob--man · 2020-11-21T05:18:29+00:00

when I got there she was less attractive than I anticipated.

This is why learning game is so important and learning not to rely just on dating apps.

BBCinParis · 2020-11-21T07:17:41+00:00

You don't have self control! And you should always be able to walk out. Just imagine the opposite, an extremly attractive woman trying to trick you into a rape accusation (or to assert her power over you), she starts with foreplay, get you horny then stops and says she no longer wants to have sex. This happens more than you might think.

Milk_moustache · 2020-11-21T08:34:03+00:00

Practice. Now go get an STD test

throwaway4rltnshp · 2020-11-21T19:23:38+00:00

Look at it as a learning experience. "Been there, done that" mentality. I dropped my standards just so I could lose my virginity, because I didn't want to be clueless with a hot girl. I cringe every time I think about it, but it gave me the experience I needed at the time.

MessyMind860 · 2020-11-22T08:52:27+00:00

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stripedtanker · 2020-11-24T05:47:39+00:00

I've been on so many dates from online when the girl lied about her looks and I'm just like fuuuuck, I'll be nice and talk for 30 minutes.

georeddit2018 · 2020-11-27T19:53:25+00:00

The positive: you accomplished one thing in your bucket list.

L2diy · 2020-11-20T16:56:39+00:00

As you should be. But a nuts a nuts. Better than jerking it.

ISCOREDwithISCO · 2020-11-20T13:49:42+00:00

This is why even when I was getting choosing signals from chicks who I found unattractive or barely passable, I chose to not fuck and go through a drought instead. I’ve seen what I’m capable of pulling, no need to get a cheap dirty nut off and feel miserable after, I’d just rather have no sex.

Cool-Blacksmith4030 · 2020-11-20T15:08:54+00:00

Don’t feel bad man this will subconsciously set your standard as you’ll shiver next time you get close to or heading to a similar “situation”

OneTrueQ · 2020-11-20T15:18:22+00:00

Don’t feel bad, you can’t be perfect. If you truly do feel bad, stop fucking ugly women and do better.

TuhTodayJr · 2020-11-20T16:18:12+00:00

Eesh been there bro. Not a fun feeling. I was too much a nice guy.

IbushiKOTA · 2020-11-20T19:29:42+00:00

Some might say I have a fetish for ugly women when it comes to a ONS. Don’t trip about it.

Mykguy2 · 2020-11-20T13:48:50+00:00

Lol best way to get over a break up. Start with a 4 and go 1 point up each week and in a month you will fucking 8s and have forgotten ur lieing x ever existed

miyakai · 2020-11-20T14:10:31+00:00

Hey, sex is sex bruv, rock it

CasuallyObliterated · 2020-11-20T15:28:11+00:00

Boo frickedy hoo

pyth0ns · 2020-11-20T15:54:12+00:00

I love how everyone here already assumes (making asses of themselves) that OP is Chris Hemsworth or Jason Mamoa caliber.

Buddy. Maybe you ain’t all that. Maybe the ‘fugly’ chicks is all you can get. Maybe you aught to be ecstatic that you even got to stick your dick into something.

You sound like a fucktard! And a huge one at that.

Tezcatlipoca1993 · 2020-11-20T18:59:39+00:00

We've all had those. Shit, I would say I built my confidence with those girls. It eventually gets better. Incremental progress, play the long game. You will have solid game and fucking foundations in a couple of years. No shame, we're together in this.

Would be amazing to get those 9s and 10s first though haha

travlingsomewhere · 2020-11-20T19:14:23+00:00

Lmao it happens. Live and learn.

You are kinda fucking up the game tho bc now she’s going to think her SMV is higher than it really is.

burn-all-bridges · 2020-11-20T19:22:21+00:00

Everyone here is being righteous but I think a lot of us will have admittedly fucked an ugly chick or a fat chick.

The important thing is to remember this feeling.

You feel like a fucking loser. You feel like you would if you picked up a shiny apple off the ground that you didn't realize was half rotten on the other side.

Have confidence in yourself.

As punishment I challenge you to go outside of your comfort zone and talk to an attractive girl in public.

I'll give you a head start by telling you that finding common ground will keep her hackles down.

My mentor tells me to be interested, not interesting. This, to me, means ask questions.

If you can do this without being outcome dependent you will have a redeeming win, whether you ever talk to pretty girl again or not. Its a numbers game and we all need practice to swing a better average.

2020-11-20T19:36:02+00:00

Better than fapping

g0d_save_the_queen · 2020-11-21T00:00:02+00:00

you better of wore protection OP you know they carry the most STIs of all demographics right? you know half the hood has been in her also?

gitpullhoes · 2020-11-21T02:18:34+00:00

I would get tested for herpes. African Americans make up for more than 50% of the herpes cases in the USA.

Title	Fucked an ugly chick and am pretty disappointed in myself
Author	MessyMind860
Upvotes	193
Comments	183
Date	November 20, 2020 10:15 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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