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Fucked up by being honest

March 15, 2020

I was thinking about this today and thought it was somewhat amusing so I thought I'd share.

I had a date about 4 months ago. This girl I used to work with, I was her manager and she was hot, now she does some presenting for local TV.

Anyway, when we worked together she was pregnant and unhappy. It was about 4 years ago. So she hits me up 4 months ago out of the blue on IG and she's still pretty smoking. She chats me up and invites me for drinks. We go out and she's doing this whole show of how much better her life is now, she's presenting local TV, left her husband, has money. She wants to pay for drinks, that sort of thing. It felt very much like she was looking for my validation, that the whole thing is about her displaying to me that she's doing well now. Like it literally felt like she's been spending the past few years sorting her life out so she could then meet me and go "ta-daaa!". I'm a little confused as to why she cares so much what I think, we hadn't even spoken in like 2 years before then.

Anyway, it gets onto sex life and we have more drinks and I'm leading her into talking about coming home with me. She says she's a frustrated single mom and I'm like I can help you with that and she's into it. Then she says "would you offer to do that for any single mom if she were here right now?" I considered for a moment, and I said "yeah, probably". This is the moment she withdrew, physically pulling back and looking shocked. The evening carried on and it was all good but she didn't come home with me, said she had work in the morning, obviously an excuse because she'd changed her mind about me. I know if I'd lied and made her feel special I'd have got her home. Or maybe not, I think she was just satisfied knowing she could've had me if she wanted.

She hits me up every few months saying let's do it again but I'm not feeling it so I just give a vague "yeah sure sounds good" and nothing comes of it.

Anyway, I got free drinks and feel like I learned something. Or maybe I didn't lol, but I still think I did the right thing being honest even if I meant I missed my chance


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Title Fucked up by being honest
Upvotes 2
Comments 11
Date March 15, 2020 6:54 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
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[–]tudor0720 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why the fuck are you meeting with single moms?

would you offer to do that for any single mom if she were here right now?

This was a shit test and you failed horribly. You should've agreed and amplified "yeah, I'm on a mission to save all the single moms, you are the 69th I save" or some stupid shit like that

[–]Cybertron4367 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

“I’m so desparate that I would fuck any single mom that showed me interest” - That’s exactly what she heard

[–]frognads5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Admit you have zero standards to a woman you used to have power over, then wonder why she ain't keen anymore. I'm sure you can figure this one out champ!

[–]SteveSan825 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Don’t waste your time with single mothers. I learned the hard way. You will always be treated like shit, the mother will always side with the kid no matter how wrong the kid was. Any attempt at discipline( like taking away a game console) will piss off the mother and do the “he/she’s not your kid!”. Plus I suspect subconsciously the mother sees you as a cuck for accepting her”

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dude I never would've gotten involved with her. But when a hot woman hits you up and invites you for drinks why not? I figured I could've hit it and quit it, but I fucked it up.

I'm not signing up for a 2nd round even tho she keeps asking me for one. It's not worth that much effort, I'll focus on others.

[–]-DeadLock0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Fuck, raising another man's child is my nightmare. Cant believe so many dudes do it

[–]redlurker91 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah you fucked up. I wouldn't agree for a second night out, that would be offering your time for virtually nothing, but next time she offers, offer her to come to your place directly for a drink, then escalate quickly. Either you smash, or she leaves in the first 10min. Win-win

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes you fucked up. Women don’t like fuckboys and they like to feel unique and special and attractive. Not only do they like it, it turns them on!

So by saying that you turned her off and she realized that fucking you would make her feel cheap and used. Also there can be no future with a guy who would fuck any single mom. Also it’s kind a creepy thing to say.

And women act on instinct. So they tend to run when something spooks them.

Don’t worry about it. It happens.

[–]throwawaycunt19970 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Yikes, too honest and not absurd enough in your response.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'll admit I was a bit too drunk at that point so I just said the first thing that came to my mind!

[–]Nastynatee3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol I can empathize with this shit buddy, I've let these slips of the tongue happen so many times. The cool thing is once you know your libel to say dumb shit often, just remind yourself to agree and amplify and it ends up working in your favor.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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