FWB not texting me, am I overanalyzing

remain-solid · 2021-06-20T00:21:31+00:00

“One of the guys is her ex, who she’s platonic friends with.”

Cap, they most likely have been fucking this whole time. If she is still friends with her former sexual partner then how delusional do you have to be to not know that she’s fucking him on the low? She’s probably falling for him again and leaving you on the side. Don’t catch ever catch feelings for a FWB, you played yourself. Don’t overthink it though, look for other women to plate.

ibringtheloads · 2021-06-20T00:22:48+00:00

If they ever say "I will text you" or "I'll send you a picture" then they definitely won't. I've seen that a hundred times. I interpret it now as "I'm hoping you text me begging to know how it goes" which of course... I won't!

Good luck dude. I know you are going to spend the next 3 days staring at your phone waiting on a text because I've done it before. I feel for you.

You know what I have to say here... Pull back. Find more plates. It's the only way forward.

MattyAnon · 2021-06-20T03:08:12+00:00

am I overanalyzing?

A bit. She's a FWB.

Unlucky_Gas316 · 2021-06-20T00:39:48+00:00

You should not only have an abundance mindset, but you should actually have a abundance of women in your life. Plenty of options. This girl will always be FWB only. If she was into you like that and wanted that, she would have told you by now. Your not the only one she is FWB with, I guarantee to it and I don't even know the broad.

xuqmiqoxe · 2021-06-20T05:11:36+00:00

She's a FWB who you've put on a pedestal and now you're over-analyzing why she does or does not do certain things. Snap out of it and put yourself on the pedestal and work to develop the best version of yourself.

JayRedCorn · 2021-06-20T00:18:22+00:00

To answer your question yes you are over analyzing and over reacting. I understand you caught feelings but you need to remember she is NOT your girl. If you keep this behavior up she will pull back and start flaking on you.

ay-fuh-q · 2021-06-20T00:45:11+00:00

I'd like to start off with saying that yes I'm aware I have oneitis.

Admission is a good start, but if you have no plans to nip that shit in the bud, all advice here is pointless.

Had a fun day with FWB, it had date vibes and I definitely said some beta shit.

Doesn't help any.

.........they all rented an Airbnb together in a nice city. One of the guys is her ex, who she's platonic friends with.

Riiiiiiiight. Keep telling yourself that. She's spending the night at an Air BnB with her ex; other people MIGHT be there also.

Before I left her place she said she's gonna send me lots of pics and tell me about her experience at this one particular restaurant.

The pictures will be her alibi. She'll show you what she wants you to see. You oneitis blinds you to the truth.

Well, she never did any of that. Radio silence.

She can't do any of that with his dick in her mouth. You're in full denial.

I somehow feel the vibe is off even though we haven't talked, am I overanalyzing?

Your gut is telling you the truth. You refuse to accept it.

ay-fuh-q · 2021-06-20T01:00:05+00:00

/u/trpcops – /u/be_bj

Current-Ticket4214 · 2021-06-20T01:20:34+00:00

I only read the title, but yes.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2021-06-23T01:47:46+00:00

>Btw, she's a huge believer of karma, so she blames herself (and partially me) for having a FWB, and that the reason why her grandpa's condition is worsening today is because her and I had sex yesterday.

^ This is DUMB.

Withdraw attention and then circle back later. Also, you have one-itis for her.

Title	FWB not texting me, am I overanalyzing
Author	be_bj
Upvotes	1
Comments	23
Date	June 20, 2021 12:12 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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