So basically it's impossible not to get it based on how it can be spread. You can get it when wearing a condom. You can get it when whoever you're sleeping with doesn't have symptoms, all you need is skin to skin contact. They don't test for herpes unless you have physical symptoms. So basically tons of people are walking around with it unknowlingly spreading it. So if all these factors are stacked against everybody, why shouldn't people who have it just sleep around like normal?

Mark Manson said it only takes 5 girls to get HSV...