I broke up with my ex of 6months, two weeks ago. I should have just soft nexted her but I ended it. She said a guy she was hanging out with was gay but then switched the story and said he tried to kiss her. So I broke things off because she originally lied even if she told the truth 15 seconds later.

Two days later on Valentine’s Day she dropped off the valentines gifts she already bought me and wrote a card saying how she wanted us to be together, she never/would never betray my trust or hurt me blah blah.

She wanted to meet just to say thanks for everything, and hug me goodbye. So we did. I was emotionless and stoic.

I want to turn her into a plate but I feel like if I contact her first, I will be put in her frame. I want to give off that I’m willing to test the waters again but never be exclusive. I’m not sure if that’s possible to do if I’m the one contacting her first, no? But I feel like she thinks she’s the victim as if she’s waiting for me to initiate contact.

I’m not sure if I should contact her or if it will hurt if I’m the first to contact one another.

I’m very busy throughout the week and live my parents which is why I want to plate her.