GF finds out im texting other girls, storms off the forgives me. How do i proceed now?

September 1, 2020

Little more info. She finds out im texting other girls. I loose frame start talking about how im sorry how it means nothing i hope she will forgive me. Cringe....

She leaves and 5 minutes later calls me to meet her outside that she wants to talk.

This is the point i regain my frame after realizing i lost it earlier. I tell her that i understand her anger, but i wont ask for her forgiveness and that it was really fun to be around her. (it really is, even tho i think we are slowly turning in to a toxic relationship, if that happens im definitely jumping off).

She then tells me how she doesn't want to break up and is scared to look like a fool for "forgiving" me and how she only wants me to promise her that i tell her if i ever find another girl and not lead her on. I say i promise. We kiss goodbye.

Now im here wondering whats the best way to proceed after this. Should i act like nothing happened or should i maybe insert more comfort. I was never in a situation like this before.

P. S. I know i didn't play this the best way. And that i lost frame. I guess i have a lot to work on still. And before anyone asks. We are in a relationship because i really have no time to spin more girls. Maybe 2 max. That's the main reason i entered the relationship. And she has a high interest in me. Which is probably why she changed her mind so quick, meanwhile even tho i like her i can't say im really into her, after TRP i hardly have big crush on girls but i guess that's a good thing.

Anyway im left in an uncomfortable position now. I don't know whats the best way to approach this. Or should i step off. Im 22 she is 20 btw.

EDIT: what's the best way to react in a situation like this?

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Title GF finds out im texting other girls, storms off the forgives me. How do i proceed now?
Author Dimenzije90
Upvotes 1
Comments 9
Date September 1, 2020 10:31 PM UTC (8 months ago)
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[–]ApdoSenpai3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Leave her and spin plates.

This is one is done

[–]spedoid2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

password on phone. if you care about her, limit plates to actually good girls and not just any bitch

[–]rawrlolrofl0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

had to learn this the hard way unfortunately

[–]jjj25761 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Practice better OPSEC when you are spinning plates.

I don’t spin plates when I am with an LTR— just not my thing. Other dudes will have better advice, but even my dumbass knows you need to practice better OPSEC.

[–]Dimenzije90[S] -1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

What's that?

[–]jjj25764 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

That question alone tells us the type of man you are.

It means you need to keep your secret shit hidden— you don’t want her to know? Then you hide it and cover your tracks.

Jesus Christ. Fucking Google, man. You’re hopeless.

[–]Dimenzije90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Im not from the west we call that different around here. Just a simple language barrier no need to get uspet.

[–]rawrlolrofl0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

just fuck the shit out of her and don't talk about it. what happened since? you owe bitches nothing. your frame is absolute shit, check your testosterone

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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