Matched with the girl on tinder, ended up fucking within 24 hours of the match(we went for drinks then went back to her place). It's been about a month since then(broke up for Christmas from University, had exams) so when she came on my mind today I thought I'd arrange a second meeting as the sex was good and there was some decent chemistry.
Message sort of goes like this: Me: Hey, how are you doing? Her: I'm good thanks, you? Me: I'm good too, are you down for a second meeting? Her: Probs not Me: I'm up for going to some bar for a few drinks 3/4 days from now. Her: I'm working Me: Ignore
At this point, I think alright, fair enough, it's been over a month and she's found some other dick.
Then she messages me at like 2am: Her: Just for future reference, if you had told me you had a nice time afterwards and wasn't looking for anything serious, I would have said yes.
So now I'm like wtf? I personally think she's just trying to get me to react and loose frame since I ignored her when she said that she's working.
Continue ignoring or amused mastery? "Alright thank you, have a nice week."
I hate these posts that analyse text, but I've been putting into practice ignoring more girls (only replying when it's about logistics) and been getting results that are a bit different than usual.
Edit: Alright, seems pretty obvious that it's her hamster rewriting history. My response is going to be absolutely nothing. Not even going to read/open the message. Leaving this little advice preacher on UNREAD hehe. It's the easiest way I can stay in my frame, amused mastery is hard, when you aren't a master.
She can keep checking back to see if I've opened the message or not, lol. She might even get embarrassed, and delete the message. Win win.
When you think about it, asking her out a second time is implying that I enjoyed the first time. She just wanted to bait me out of my frame, get validation or something else. Fuck knows, girls are strange beautiful creatures.
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