This girl is a solid 8, definitely the cutest I've ever been with, from Turkey, very innocent. I've seen her twice, the first time we went to a bar and got a drink, second time I invited her over, cooked her dinner, and fucked her, where she revealed I am only the second guy she's ever been with. She also talked about wanting to gain experience sexually and I promised to show her some things.

I've tried to get her to hang out a couple times but our schedules haven't allowed for it. First I invited her over for dinner again after her salsa dancing, she wanted me to come dancing and I said no (I hate dancing) but she was welcome to come over later. Our conversation since then:

  • Me: I'm not big on dancing. Stop by on your way back
  • Her: You never know if u dont try :) its lesson for beginners from 6 to 7 pm, im learning too
  • Me: Oh, I've tried. ;-) If you're done at 7 swing by, I'm making dinner
  • Her: No salsa, no sex then ;) ha ha im kidding. i ll keep dancing. lets plan for another time. have a good evening
  • Me (3 days later): Now you owe me dinner for that bad joke. When are you cooking?
  • Her: Friday night???
  • Me: Can't do Friday, I'm having drinks with a friend in town. I could do tomorrow night, otherwise I'll be busy until next Thursday.
  • Her: Do u wanna have a walk around the lake tomorrow or go to bar grab drink?

To be honest these seem like relationship things, I'm not interested in having a relationship with this girl, I'm interested in inviting her over and fucking her. But she's foreign and hasn't integrated into US culture that well so maybe she doesn't understand?

Thinking about texting back: "Now we're walking around the lake? What happened to you cooking me dinner?"

Or should I just sack up and hang out with her and try to get her back to mine at the end of the night? I know this question is lame as fuck because it's about this one girl but I'm pretty new at this spinning plates stuff so I'm trying to learn the rules in general.

Thanks in advance!