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Girl I'm dating travels abroad alone for 1-2 months - Question

August 8, 2018

This isn't quite a question you might expect from the title.

Background: Girl I'm dating (not exclusively) is going to leave for 1-2 months to travel around. She is outgoing and not shy about sexuality so I'm pretty sure she will have sex while on the trip and it's ok because we are not exclusive (and I will be having sex too with others) but the part which bothers me is how should I communicate her that she better take care of protection. Most likely she will be much more receptive to fuck strangers when she has no social restraints and the general athmosphere where she is going will be much more relaxed and judgemental.

Why I want to say about protection?

Well she gave me a blowjob the first night we met - no protection there. Additionally we are fucking raw - which in a way is my mistake ofc but you guys know how much better it is without condom...

I've been thinking that I'd say something like "I know you are going to have fun and it's ok but remember that the STDs can be transmitted orally too."

Other option is that I say nothing and start using condom when she comes back until she understands what's the deal and goes unpromptedly to take STD tests.

EDIT: To avoid misunderstandings, I'll add this: With these preemptive measures, my objective is to be able to fuck her raw without getting STDs. That's why I'm wondering these things.

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Title Girl I'm dating travels abroad alone for 1-2 months - Question
Author Zech4riah
Upvotes 1
Comments 18
Date August 8, 2018 4:06 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/girl-im-dating-travels-abroad-alone-for-1-2-months.129722
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/95ncje/girl_im_dating_travels_abroad_alone_for_12_months/

[–]Borsao667 points8 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Like Chris Rock says: Women don't count dick they got in another country.

Simply put, tell her that you have plans, and having a kid isn't in them right now and you want to be more careful.

[–]Zech4riah[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

My point kind of was that she would take STD tests that I can fuck her raw again or if I could be sure that she takes care of protection on the trip - I could keep fucking her raw.

[–]Borsao661 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Even if you imagined some way of asking her that didn't offend her, is she going to follow it in another country while drinking and high on feelz?

Protect yourself that's all you can do.

[–]Zech4riah[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah, I think this is what I have to do. Too bad though

[–]Borsao661 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Fucking any chick raw is a good way to be on the hook for child support for 22-25 years (18+college)

[–]CainPrice2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

If you don't trust a girl to use a barrier method of protection when fucking randoms the day she meets them, you sure as shit shouldn't be fucking her raw yourself. Forget her trip. You guys aren't exclusive right now. She's fucking other guys right now.

[–]Zech4riah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, this is something I realized while I was writing the post. I tried to hamster it to myself that in her current environment she is much less likely to fuck or blow other guys raw which is true to a certain extent (versus having feelz and tingles in non-judgemental environment abroad) but it isn't strong enough guarantee especially when we haven't verbalized these things (like: "You need to tell me or use protection if you fuck someone else").

So yeah, I shouldn't be fucking her raw even now.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

She gets tested when she gets home, wait 3 months, test her again. You should be wearing a condom anyways.

[–]Liu_Wang0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

you may as well just be done with her if you're worried about shit like that

[–]1TopTRP0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not surprised this kind of question comes from a dude who's busting grape in some slut on the regular.

When she gets back, you fucking wrap your shit up and tell her to go get tested.

I would say "until" she gets tested, but that would acknowledge you going back to raw dogging her which is fucking stupid.

Guys like you have no willpower though and you'll probably just end up thrill seeking before she even comes back with a clean test.

[–]Endorsed Contributormallardcove-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

You're a fucking idiot in multiple ways. I shouldn't even have to explain why. You don't want advice, you are just trying to find out how you can break the rules and get away with them. This is not the place.

[–]Zech4riah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for your constructive input. I'm glad that others had some content which I agreed on and got reinforcement for correct solution.

EDIT: Oh and the culture/country I'm living, the women get barely any benefits (compared to downsides) if they fool the man to get them pregnant. Also STDs are really rare here (hint: Scandinavia) so yeah, I've done some calculations with the risk. But to be fair after thinking a bit. I guess I needed this "You fucking idiot"-comment to hammer it in to my head that I'm risking too much here still even tho the odds that something bad would happen are more unlikely than in many other places.

[–]Despacit0-2 points-1 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Wow, you're weak lol. Go look for other girls while she's travelling. Let her do her thing and you do yours. You aren't exclusive after all, not sure why you care so much.

[–]Zech4riah[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

Did you read anything I wrote? Read again and respond accordingly.

[–]Despacit0-2 points-1 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Dude you said it yourself, you aren't exclusive. Why are you so concerned about this girl. It sounds like to me you are jealous because you think she will go around fucking multiple guys catching STD. It also sounds like you've got no other backup chicks that's why you're so concerned. Go find other girls and let this chick be

[–]Zech4riah[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

tbh, I'm concerned about my health and my pleasure :D

So you are saying that I should next her because she might catch a STD instead of trying to deal with it accordingly?

[–]fashfront0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Nah just use a condom for a while after she comes back, for your peace of mind if nothing else

Even if you tell her to use protection and she agrees, that's no guarantee she'll keep her word

[–]Zech4riah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I guess this is the right answer here.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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