Girlfriend Threesome

a6rp · 2021-06-21T06:11:15+00:00

Well You either accept fact that she had this threesome and deal with it or break up with her because it's not worth to have your mind haunted by those past dicks.

Yashugan00 · 2021-06-21T09:49:28+00:00

why do you have a "girlfriend". that's a title women don't get to claim outright anymore. They have to work for towards that now. such is the nature of the marketplace they created.

"I have felt sick thinking about it."

why? you don't own her, it's just your turn. Better get that in your skull early. There IS no loyalty in women. Rappers have been warning us for decades. The red pill observed, and big data from dating sites confirmed this nearly 5 years ago. The game is up. We know the rules they're playing with now.

" experience to be fun and uninhibited "

good, have fun. understand that that's all it is. Women can't love the way a man wants to be loved. Men -> women -> children -> puppies

"I know she is completely obsessed with me."

.... always add "right now", a woman's opinion of you can shift with the wind. "light switch effect".. today's love of her life is tomorrow's asshole abusive boyfriend.

"Is this girl still LTR/Marriage material?"

you're both early 20's, so that's an automatic NO.

MattyAnon · 2021-06-21T13:34:49+00:00

I often think about that night and her getting dicked down and tossed away

Those guys paid nothing for everything she had to offer.

You pay with full commitment and you get sex that probably isn't as exciting.

This is the standard story with exclusive relationships, because exclusive is at least partly beta.

Sorry... it sucks.... but there it is.

In reality, the threesome isn't very different from any other form of casual sex.

I don't think this bodes well for a long term future with her either given that women sleeping around more doesn't correlate with long term committment.

Right, but what's her n-count?

She did date another boy for 2 years since she was 18 so I am confident her notch count is about 5-10.

That makes no sense. From 16 to 21 she has been in a relationship for 2 years. That gives her 3 years, in which she only had sex with 7 guys, a threesome, plus the relationship?

5-10 is possible, but it's by no means guaranteed. A one night stand once a month when she's horny for 3 years is 36 guys...... and that would be EASY for an attractive girl.

Is it ok to think this or do I have some insecurities here?

I don't think a threesome is a big deal. It's not very different to any other form of casual sex.

Guys have had their fun with her at zero cost. Are you ok with that? If not, it's probably because you feel you put a lot of effort or commitment into the relationship, but all you get out is sex. Sex that is devalued by her previous experience.

If that's how you feel, you are valuing sex too highly and she isn't doing anything else that you value.

Is this girl still LTR/Marriage material?

No girl is marriage material: do not marry.

lickybumbum69420 · 2021-06-21T10:47:21+00:00

You’ve gotta imagine there’s more she isn’t telling you. Girls are great at keeping secrets.

ibwriting · 2021-06-21T11:55:21+00:00

This isn’t a threesome this is a train.

If she’s open to having a three some with you and another girl go for it

BlondeHornyElf · 2021-06-21T14:15:18+00:00

if you feel this way now, imo this will haunt you even more if you invest in her and make sacrifices for the relationship (which is inevitable in an LTR).

if u can't shake this feeling you should cut her loose becuz your mind will go there when you have to deal with problems in the relationship and that's not good for you or her.

TheSmile_10 · 2021-06-21T17:57:22+00:00

For da streets. Next.

Illoyonex · 2021-06-21T15:31:43+00:00

The impression I get when I read your post is that you're putting her on a pedestal.....

redhawkes · 2021-06-21T19:53:03+00:00

That's only the tip of the iceberg buddy. Stop listening to the libtard cucks here who're calling you insecure because they don't have options.

3 months is a joke, don't paint red flags green.

Is this girl still LTR/Marriage material?

Plate until it breaks. Choo choo mofo.

ZosoWicca · 2021-06-21T06:34:23+00:00

Is it ok to think this or do I have some insecurities here? Absolutely, it is totally ok to think like that. Not a matter of insecurities.

Is this girl still LTR/Marriage material? Not at all. For the same reason you wouldn't ltr a prost, Cardi B or Jenna Jameson.

SuriyaRn · 2021-06-21T09:13:11+00:00

OMFG just use that shit in bed like a man who owns that cunt for life.

"Suck on my fingers like it's another dick, Who's the nasty whore who needs every hole to get filled up? And give her that ass action while you blow her back out.

Or better yet, get a vibe, deny her the access to it, spank her right and make it a reward for her doing the dishes right or what ever the fuck you deem.

When she blows you the next time, tease that fucking pussy with it like it's another dick.

Fuck your way out of this. Tell her you'd love to fuck another woman and have her watch all tied up and unable to touch herself.

Use her fucking threesome to fuel her kinks and show some fucking domination OP until you've made peace with it.

2021-06-21T13:15:01+00:00

Ghost

randomthoughts1050 · 2021-06-21T20:33:46+00:00

Personally, I have no problem if a plate has been in a MMF, but not a LTR.

When the plate starts to ask for commitment, can't delay commitment longer and seems LTR worthy (6 months +), I point blank ask her if she has been in a MMF. I also add, this is a deal breaker for me, so if I find out she lied in the future, 1 month or 5 years, we are done.

Subutai_Baghatur · 2021-06-21T08:38:11+00:00

Is it ok to think this or do I have some insecurities here?

Only you know whether your feelings are from a place of insecurity or not. Ask yourself whether or not you would have given up your monogamy if you would have known this in beforehand.

Is this girl still LTR/Marriage material?

Most girls are not LTR material and virtually none are wife material. You have been with this girl for three months, you should not even be thinking about whether or not she is wife material right now.

Comfortable-Echo-618 · 2021-06-21T20:25:54+00:00

Bruv why are 23 year old guys out here trying to settle down with thotties and shit!? Enjoy her and pass her on to the next guy. Don't commit to what other guys got for free. If you want to chose to learn the hard way on some fairy tale bullshit then that's your problem.

losingalldamonies · 2021-06-28T16:52:24+00:00

Honestly bro you’re not insecure that’s a deal breaker for any guy who is thinking about a ltr with a girl. I think you should cut your losses.

tradsouthernmale · 2021-07-02T21:42:16+00:00

This should not come as a surprise, but your gf is a hoe.

Downgrade her to Fuck Buddy and make her give you FMF threesomes.

KuritaT · 2021-06-21T07:46:46+00:00

OP, I would say it depends on how that came to be. If she wanted to try it, just don't think about it. The threesomes you think about when you never had one yourself are the ones you know from porn. It's far from that irl especially when she only tried it once. Everything else seems to be fine and that's just perfect.

It's a different thing (and a dealbreaker) if she was drunk and lost control, IMHO. Then again, it's still not so much about that threesome, more about alcohol and loss of control.

Can you trust a girl that had a threesome in her past? Yes.

Can you trust a girl who is bad with alcohol and self-control? You shouldn't.

Title	Girlfriend Threesome
Author	TehMightyDuk
Upvotes	10
Comments	40
Date	June 21, 2021 6:05 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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