Hey guys,

I am in a good LTR with a nice girl who is good to me and really invested in the relationship. It's been over a year and I think that she is a great girlfriend. She's loving, very affectionate, very proud of being with me and she is easy to be with. Doesn't confront me and submits to me if she has to etc.

The only problem is that her libido doesn't match mine. I'm the type of guy who wants sex every day. She's more of a twice a week girl. We obviously have found a middle ground, we have sex 3-4 times a week. However, at least once to twice a week, I can tell she's not really into it. I know she does it for me, and while I appreciate it, it bothers me that this happens in the first place. I don't really enjoy sex when it feels like I'm the only one really into it.

Today it happened again. We had sex last time on Thursday and it was really good. Today we went out for a drink and when we got home she initiated. It was clear as day she did it just to satisfy me. She wasn't even wet. I asked her if she was horny she said "no, but I wanna have sex". We tried anyway, but I wasn't feeling it. She was dry, and I got annoyed and just stopped.

It's rare that she's dry, but it really pissed me off today. I don't know what I want to do. On the one hand, I have a girl that makes me happy in almost every aspect and who's devoted to me. Really she tries hard to please me in any way I want.

On the other hand, I'm looking for more sexually. Our actual sex when it clicks is great, it's pornstar level and very rough. If it wasn't I would habe dumped her. But my libido is pretty damn high and I never feel totally satisfied. I don't know however if it's worth dumping a girl like her who is a great girlfriend in the quest of looking for someone who might be more into sex, but probably worse in every other way. And I'm not even sure how many attractive girls out there can satisfy me sexually in the long run, and I'm not about that plate life. It's worth mentioning that my girlfriend is very attractive so she's not easily replaced.

Dunno, maybe you guys can help, I don't wanna make a mistake I'll probably regret to maybe have sex once or twice more a week.