Girls nervous around me

November 27, 2019
98 upvotes

How do you guys get girls to warm up to you? It’s hard to make moves when they aren’t even comfortable around you yet. I’ve had multiple girls act shy and nervous around me in person. This one girl was actually sweating and kept telling me she was sorry she was nervous. Also had another girl that couldn’t keep eye contact with me for more than 3 seconds.

Not sure if it just depends on the girl but I would say I’m pretty good looking so I assume they are nervous because of that. Any tips to get them to warm up? Or is this something that just takes time? I always try to reassure them that there’s nothing to worry about. I’m not trying to get in any kind of trouble or accused of something.

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Title Girls nervous around me
Author imtrynaclapnocap
Upvotes 98
Comments 56
Date November 27, 2019 4:10 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
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[–]TRedman88165 points166 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

You want them nervous. This makes the pussy tingle... Capitalize on it. Move slowly and confidently and they will be putty in your hands.

[–]ThrowawayYAYAY2002107 points108 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

This x1000.

The last woman I slept with was nervous as can be around me. Put my hand in her knickers and she was soaked!

Nervousness = You will get laid.

[–]_teh_overloard36 points37 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

please tell me you grabbed her by the pussy!

[–]ThrowawayYAYAY200218 points19 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Standard! ;-)

[–]FimTown16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The correct answer was, "They let you do it."

[–]_teh_overloard9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

my hero

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Misogynist reeeee

[–]GameOfBimbos4202 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Love when my British whores use the word knickers🤤. Stfu you whore! 🤣

[–]Helmet_Icicle17 points18 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Not exactly.

You need to carefully balance the comfort vs tension ratio. You need comfort for them to reciprocate escalation and you need tension for them to feel excited, then to build anticipation for release.

Too much comfort and they're bored. Too much tension and they'll bail.

The fact of the matter is that some people are working on issues like social anxiety but can't quite hack it yet in the field. Either they'll decide it's too much or not, but there isn't a whole lot to be done about it. It's best to just use it as a free filter to next, and go find women who don't have this problem.

[–]we_trippin_balls1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Great counter argument, what you said is more realistic.

[–]Crixusgannicus0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This 3000!

Good on you Tredman!

[–]muricanwerewolf199 points100 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Put down the knife.

:P

[–][deleted]  (3 children) | Copy Link

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[–]muricanwerewolf112 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

🥁

[–]Rimefang3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The real heroes

[–]jackandjill221 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol

[–]hamagiclamp5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Underated comment

[–][deleted] 32 points33 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Congrats, you're doing it right.

[–]BajaGhia18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nervous = anticipation. It also means you're in control and she doesn't know what's about to happen, but she's excited.

How do you think a girl doing her first porn shoot feels?

It's a complete surrender. A good response would be, "Don't worry, we're going to go to x and dance a lol, and then I was thinking is show you my stamp collection."

Of course there's a drink or two involved while dancing and then you're off.

[–]Massap2428 points29 points  (14 children) | Copy Link

Talk to girls with high SMV

[–]Spaghetti177616 points17 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Female smv has nothing to do with their level of nervousness. Ghetto low smv women will be louder that a hot virgin.

[–]Massap2414 points15 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

OP says this happens to him often, at one point one of the women was sweating a lot and couldn’t look at him. Do you think a 8,9 or even 7 woman that has attractive guys approaching daily and probably has fucked many would act this way? Possible but definitely not norm, most high SMV women have at least enough confidence to look at a man without getting super nervous, regardless of how attractive he is.

[–]Spaghetti17764 points5 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

high smv

has fucked many

Lol wut

Thots are trash no matter what they look like.

[–]Massap240 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

They are all thots buddy lol

[–]pussykiller0090 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

All fucking thots

[–]MasterpieceHH15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Own it.

[–]Joshd_4714 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

i love when they are nervous, shows i can take control

[–]smgtn11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Make them laugh.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You should probably take off your ski mask and put down your chloroform rag.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nervous is different than uncomfortable. Not sure what you mean. But always remember the golden rule:

A comfortable speaker makes a comfortable audience.

Generally speaking, how you feel leaks into how other people feel.

[–]LordFlakkko6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I wish I had this problem

[–]TheWalkingNightmare0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol

[–]Spaghetti177612 points13 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Smear your shit on her face “You are mine now. Ooga booga”

Ignore this if you’re white.

[–]Kp_GG4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

LOL noted

[–]Dizmal3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Be like this guy!

[–]Spaghetti177611 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m 300 pounds, 40 years old, didn’t lose my virginity until last year when I married my wife. Thanks to the red pill I have a big beautiful family now. My wife has 5 beautiful children of different races and I couldn’t love them any more. Sometimes they even talk to me.

[–]madfrombrad1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

There’s a point where every woman will either bail or fuck you. Both you and her should be nervous. Y’all are mating ffs

[–]Meloxian1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Take off your hanibal lector mask and you’ll be good

[–]Kobinks3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Vodka.

[–]MattyAnon1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Or is this something that just takes time?

time and comfort.

or torment them until they have to laugh

[–]jackandjill220 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hm

[–]Domebeers-3 points-2 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Tips to warm them up? I like to start by kissing their necks and then proceed south from there. Rub their twat while you work your way to the tits. I'll start to talk dirty to them at that point, and start getting them to say nasty shit.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Wake up trollololol this is the real world

[–]AlationMath0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

I dont get it, what's trollish about his comment?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Girl: I am nervous Pervert nerd: starts licking her and rubbing her pussy Just a casual interaction nothing to see here

[–]Domebeers0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Youre parents should apologize to you for birthing you autistic, sorry.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

k loser nerd

[–]Domebeers0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

they didn't offer the apology, did they?

It's ok lil buddy

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

K loser nerd

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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