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Going nuclear in LTR

December 31, 2019
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I think is the end. I went FULL BETA in my LTR. I have backup of her phone because I've helped her transfer all things from Android to iOS and oh fucking god she was a fucking whore and led me to believe she was a fucking saint. She was fucking guys friday and saturday a lot and a lot. All the ghings she said made me believe she was a fucking unicorn, she didn't made out with anyone on months before we met, no, actually she was sucking dicks left and right. She has a lot of erased messages when the subject is delicate, and, I can't fucking do it anymore. She treats me like a king, maybe this is normal and I should accept that she fucked other guys before, but I feel so fucking dead inside........ Lies lies and lies, white lies, lies that don't mean a thing, but fuck this, I have to move on.

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Title Going nuclear in LTR
Author ForeverInYou
Upvotes 26
Comments 32
Date December 31, 2019 4:06 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]theUnBannableHulk53 points54 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

NEVER BACK DOWN ON YOUR STANDARDS.

Want to scar her for life? Dump her tonight on NYE πŸ₯³

[–]rizzyfromthe917 points18 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

NYE or not , dump her now

[–]Rage81507 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Get dick sucked first. Blow load on face. "OK we're done now".

[–]ForeverInYou[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

THANK YOU MY MAN

[–]DoesItMatterTooYou26 points27 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Revenge isn't worth it. The opposite of love is indifference. Get to indifference and never look back.

(It is hard I know)

[–]rdaneeloliv4w19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dump her indifferently then. Give no explanation, just say things are over. Block. Ghost.

[–]Vsaint96 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

True stoicism in practice here

[–]ForeverInYou[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

I'm doing this right now. The will to tell her how of a liar she was is big, but I won't do that

[–]DoesItMatterTooYou1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Be strong. Saying you are starting 2020 off as a single man focused on your self growth is all you owe her.

Be strong

[–]DoesItMatterTooYou1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Well how was your evening? Hopefully 2020 is going to be the year you take your life back

Happy New Year!

[–]ForeverInYou[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

It was great! I had a really good female friend which invited to spend NYE with her. We bounded and at the club I hooked up with a beautiful blond girl. Of course I was not superb, but it was a great start! Thanks friend and Happy New Year!

[–]DoesItMatterTooYou1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Great to hear... Be the prize !

[–]DoesItMatterTooYou12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

People are going to tell you what they think you want to hear. Some women are amazing liars... like award winning and when you have hard evidence they still find a way to spin it around and somehow it's your fault or they never said it.

Just keep your emotions in check and hard next. Full block and focus that negative energy into positive actions for yourself (gym etc)

Be super glad you dodged this early. I was a moron for 8 looooong years and was the one to kick her out and take a big divorce raping.

Valuable lesson relatively cheap.

Start the New Year off single and focused on yourself. You BE THE PRIZE !

Don't put energy into over the top get her ass back schemes.

Rekey your door locks, block her on your phone and shut down all social media for at least a month... it is poison anyway.

You can do this sir.

[–]ForeverInYou[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thabk you friend.

[–]1900_year_old_vampire20 points21 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

every woman you ever meet, for the rest of your life... every woman you see on the street, every woman you talk to, every woman you date, every woman you sleep with, has had lots of sex with lots of other people. literally every single one. so my suggestion is get a grip man

[–]ForeverInYou[S] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah, but what about lying? I always had a feeling about her... Even tho I didn't discovered cheating, she lied about too much stuff. She made me believe she was this one person that cared most about values and etc, she's not special at all.

[–]1900_year_old_vampire9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

newsflash, women lie. especially when the integrity of the only commodity they possess on planet earth (the atm machine between their legs) is challenged by a man they know is gona flip out like a sperg if he hears the truth. they arent fucking retarded, they know that their pussy is literally the only thing that gives them any value at all. if you dont want to hear the lies about it then dont ask such them such retarded fucking questions. you already know the answer, and it aint got nothin to do with you, so why

[–]LeatherBoundWisdom3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Do what's in your interests, not what feels good. You don't like the girl anymore? Next quietly and without problems, you don't need to make a whole schpeel about it. Sloots will be sloots, this is nothing new ya hurd.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Block everywhere, delete all numbers and social media handles and ghost her. Leave her wondering forever what the fuck happened.

[–]hamagiclamp2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I just went through your history and all I can say is you are absolutely full of insecurities. You need to fix you before you even think of having a healthy LTR.

[–]muricanwerewolf13 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Wait, she didn’t cheat? She just fucked other dudes before you? And she treats you like a king? Ahahaha. You’re gonna blow this thing up one way or another but you’re way out of line. She probably lied to you because you demonstrated you’re the kind of man whose frame is easily shaken by the fact that women actually have sex.

[–]volvostupidshit1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes. And this is why OP should just let this go and work on himself.

[–]ForeverInYou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, actually my fears were right. I can't confirm her cheating, but she did went to party on a secret. Almost 100 proof anyway. It sucks

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[–]ForeverInYou[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

dudes will still claim snooping on phone is not a good idea. It obviously is.

Yes. If you're insecure, you'll do this. I was insecure either by not having abundance or because I was 'feeling' something weird. Anyway the relationship would not work

[–]deathhandmachiavelli1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

lol, yeah, something similar happened to me with one of my first girlfriends. I thought she was all innocent and believed her when she said how much she liked me. She even had her friends in on it, they told me how much she was in love with me and liked only me. I was a kid, so this is high school age stuff. So I was all dedicated to her to and was a real sap.

She ended up dumping me abruptly over the phone one day. It turns out, she had a new boyfriend (who she had probably been seeing when we were together).

I look back on it and laugh, it was a good learning experience. I still had some good times with her, and I am glad we broke up, because what came later was a lot better.

Just relax and understand that this is part of life and had to happen to you at some point.

[–]volvostupidshit1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It really is hard to grasp this concept when you are still hurting, but trust me OP, it does get better. It gets better to the point that you can almost laugh at it and thank the gods that it happened.

[–]Elprez911 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The hardest part is whatever you had was a lie, it's bloody hard to adjust your life after being hurt but the show must go on leave her ass move forward career, gaming etc n be the prize again man.

Good luck brother

[–]Massap240 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Why are you shocked by this lol? Man you’ve got a long way to go

[–]ForeverInYou[S] 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Man, she lied that the only ever blowjob she liked was on my dick, she lied about me being the first who ducked her ass. I never asked this stuff, she always just states this shit to please me or something. If she lies this much she's addicted to it.

[–]Massap249 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah women are very afraid of looking like sluts even though they are. You already know she wanted you to think she was sweet innocent little girl that only ever enjoyed sex with you. Your mistake was believing it, then you went beta and found out all the lies.

Regardless she did lie and you can’t unknow that shit and clearly it bothers you. Hard next on New Year’s Eve like someone suggested. Go into the next chick already knowing she’s a slut.

[–]volvostupidshit2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Always assume she is a slut.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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