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Harassment issues at LTR’s job

February 20, 2021

I don’t believe this is a post for marriedRP since my LTR isn’t the direct issue. My LTR has this dude at work that doesn’t understand what boundaries are. She has explained multiple times that she is in a LTR with me. He clearly wasn’t happy. Slashed her tires (twice). She reported it, he’s on camera but it doesn’t show his face so no direct proof. Supervisor acknowledges it was him but upper management won’t fire him. He’s made it very uncomfortable for her at work to the point of where (today) it’s gotten physical. He’s gone out of his way to touch her and verbally intimidate her. She’s fearful of her life because of how this guy carries himself (in a group home, depressed life, nothing to live for, alcoholic). I’m kind of stuck at a point where I have no idea how to handle this. Her job has made no lengths of remedy the situation. He isn’t that important to the location, he’s a fucking dishwasher. How would you approach this situation

Edit; the core issue with me is I’m losing frame with this. I’m annoyed and pissed at her for taking so long truly do anything about this. She is JUST talking about restraining order but is dragging her feet because she needs a job

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Title Harassment issues at LTR’s job
Author Jacked5parrow
Upvotes 1
Comments 22
Date February 20, 2021 1:40 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
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[–]BlackCoffee8817 points18 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

A woman has ultimate power in the workplace regarding harassment. She is not leveraging her power properly. She’s sandbagging. I’d break up with her for holding back on her power and putting this on you causing you stress.

[–]Confident_Strategy_14 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This guy is smart.

[–]IBETITALL4203 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Finally somebody who knows what the fuck they're talking about.

[–]Noodlesoupe23 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Wtf tell her to call the police and document everything he’s doing to her. This is how murders happen

[–]Jacked5parrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Already has been done, the two slashed tire cases are documented

[–]RedEyeBlackEye11 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Police, possible restraining order, consult a lawyer.

Unless, there is a lawyer(or paralegal) in this thread, I would take our advice with a grain of salt. If you go all "tough guy" on him, it WILL END BADLY. MOST LIKELY SCENARIOS:

1) You beat his ass, your girlfriend loses her job, you go to jail. Lots of legal shit and HELLA expenses.

2) you beat his ass, your girlfriend loses her job, he stalks, rapes, murders her. You don't want that shit on you.

3) you beat his ass, he comes back with a weapon, kills you(possibly her too).

4) you go to fight him and either he whips YOUR ASS or you are arrested bc her employers call police. She is then fired bc "her boyfriend came to her job to assault a coworker".

5) you(and her) do nothing, the situation continues, gets worst, possibly ends with him stalking, raping, murdering her. Or he loses interest and finds a new "prey" eventually(very low chance he'll just lose interest though, he's a clearly PROGRESSING unsub).

6) hope you get the point guy. TALK TO HER, POSSIBLY CONSULT A LAWYER OR POLICE...before it's too late homie.

[–]Jacked5parrow[S] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I have no desire to engage with him all of the reasons you listed. This isn’t my fight but it’s my job to keep my girl feel safe and supported.

As for legal matters, she has spoken to police about the tire slashing. The job refuses to do anything about it. As of right now, she has an eye witness on what happened today. She finally agreed to getting some restraining or protective order tomorrow. Her fear is him losing his job and then him going after her.

[–]RedEyeBlackEye11 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If he goes after her and you're present...FUCK THAT MOTHERFUCKER UP. If you're not present, make sure she has some pepper spray, taser, blade, or legal firearm to protect herself AT ALL TIMES. You might wanna talk to her about stuff like this, maybe even a self defense classes(or 10). She should get in the habit of carrying her keys between her fingers, jab stab style. A couple good jab stabs to his groin, face, eyes, or neck would take the fight right out of him REAL FAST.

Edit: might wanna get a GOOD alarm system too, keep the windows and doors locked at night. Also, get a door jammer so he can't kick the door in(motherfucker would break his foot first).

[–]jjj25760 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

If he goes after her, he gets arrested— once the PFA sticks, which it will. Burden of proof is waaaay low for those.

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