Help with game

skyrunner22 · 2021-06-21T01:13:24+00:00

Congrats on the work you put in, keep grinding my g. As far as game from where you are starting I would say the best mindset I usually recommend is privatemans approach. He touched on this a few times and his way of going about it he felt first you work on your confidence by mastering something important to him and that mastery gives him a sense of control of himself and his social environment.

After that he needed basic social skills where you could interact with anybody in a setting, us being social animals there were many benefits not just interacting with women but everyone. He recommended the Social Skills Guidebook by Chris MacCleod as a book that could help in this section. Then finally after that you would add what he called charisma with women, basically what is referred to as game or seduction skills. You start with Mystery Method, Book of Pook, Bang/Game by Roosh.

Always thought it was a great post and something I recommend all the time to people on asktrp. Main thing is work on basic social skills first, talk to anyone, build that up, then go from there. here is link to post

http://archive.is/ydFb4

remain-solid · 2021-06-21T00:35:15+00:00

No, you’re not an autist - you’re just bad at socializing with women. Keep being consistent with approaching and maybe ask for their number next time then you proceed.

basedabundance · 2021-06-21T01:25:17+00:00

Well done for how far you’ve come, I would recommend joining social clubs and essentially learn from whoever is the most charismatic in the group you are in.

I am not saying to copy them as that will come off as forced, you should learn from them and how they act rather than particular rehearsed lines.

Once you have been learning from extroverted people long enough, the rest with girls will follow.

bajafishtaco · 2021-06-21T02:20:15+00:00

virgin and nofap ..... jesus christ ... you wont last longer than 10 seconds if you actually manage to get a girl. First cut out the nofap crap, its retarded. Its just something guys blame their failures on and use it to make themselves to feel like they have achieved something ( all you have achieved is making your ballsack nearly explode). I guarantee you most guys on here fap several times a day and still get laid. Maybe you should focus on your social interactions more than on not fapping for a year.... yes that is the problem. As someone that has regular autistic interactions with people i can tell you it improves with practice like anything else. The more you socialize the more pleasant and smoother you are going to be which should translate into all your interactions with people.

MattyAnon · 2021-06-22T02:05:50+00:00

Also they confuse me with a pro PUA and this is getting me problems too.

then don't say any pua things

Am i being an fucking autist while talking to them or what is the problem?

You need attraction (physical, fun) and comfort (just mutual interest and relaxed).

Should i focus on getting more money?

No

I started this improvement for women but i have found something better in the way that is chasing my goals and feel happy but i still lust for them.

Do both.

Really hard to know what you're doing wrong, but it does take a chunk of practice and skill to attract women from cold approach. But it can be done, and done fairly easily when you get the hang of it.

How much weight do you still have to lose? 10% bodyfat is ideal.

Title	Help with game
Author	kurcovein
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	June 21, 2021 12:29 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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