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Helping beta friends?

April 18, 2020

Have any of you had any success with helping your beta ass friends? I had a long ass post written up with detailed examples but honestly felt bad airing out my people on Reddit.

Anyways, it's just really difficult watching these shitty behaviors. You know the shit. Spenign all day saying they need a girl, staring at girls in public, can't talk to them unless drunk, relying on girls validation for happiness and being very angsty/frustrated when things don't go their way. But the worst? The god damned fucking defeatest attitude. Like, mother fucker, you aren't in a wheelchair.

So are there any success stories with helping out some of your people. Or is it a lost cause? Sorry if this turned toward rant territory.

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Title Helping beta friends?
Author dynospectrum7
Upvotes 0
Comments 9
Date April 18, 2020 5:57 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/helping-beta-friends.654009
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/g3ru2h/helping_beta_friends/
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[–]2redhawkes12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This kind of shitposting should be banable on the sight.

Literally in the fucking sidebar:

Do I tell my guy friends about TRP?

Is your name Morpheus and your friend's name Neo? Then no. Lead by example. You can only unplug yourself.

[–]MotiMorphosys4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Start by dropping subtle hints

Then if he doesn't get it, explain it to him over french toast before 7:30am. Decaf coffee only.

If he argued you, show him the music video for "Hit me Baby one more Time" followed by a Joe Rogan podcast

If that doesn't work, claw him on the neck with your fingernails

If that doesn't work, ghost him for 3-5 days. If that doesn't work, you're not alpha enough, hit the gym

Don't read the sidebar though. It's no use.

[–]BruhMoment458861 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

The clawing tactic worked for me

[–]MotiMorphosys0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly at this point the French toast does the trick for me

[–]BruhMoment458860 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

A lot of people ask this question. You can't help someone that doesnt want to be helped.

You can't shove the pill down their throats and make them swallow it.

You can however, chop the pill up and mix it in their applesauce

What I mean by that is calling out any disgusting behavior so they at least become self aware. Dont do this all the time you will become annoying. Lead by example most importantly. They want puss? Once they see you walking around with girls then they'll take your advice.

At the end of the day you cant help someone who doesnt want help. They'll most likely have to learn the hard way like me any many others on here.

[–]dynospectrum70 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Appreciate the feedback. Naturally want others to succeed. Just looking to see if anyone else had any luck doing so.

[–]redhorndog0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

There was this movie I watched some time back. Fight Club. Pretty interesting one. There was a rule in the movie about this fictional club. It goes something like "The first rule of fight club is we do not talk about fight club"

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I've tried to broach the subject without specifically mentioning TRP because of the automatic negative perception it generates. Usually I get back some virtue singling white knight bullshit even if we're just talking between men. That's an ideologically-socialized automatic response. I get that you want your friends to succeed but it's a huge waste of time. Just worry about you and lead by example, if they wanna learn they'll approach you.

[–]throwaway46433665770 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Have any of you had any success with helping your beta ass friends?

No they ostracised me for it

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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