How can we quantify our SMV

PlebDestroyer · 2014-09-18T21:35:46+00:00

tinder will tell you if you're in the top 20% or so.

otherwise, play the numbers game and cold approach. your success rate will give you a good idea

AlphaAsFAQ · 2014-09-18T23:18:12+00:00

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vandaalen · 2014-09-19T11:46:12+00:00

Sorry to say, but this is a woman's approach.

Why would you care about some external source who would end up telling you a number which should express how "good" you are?

I am pretty sure that you as a man know your flaws pretty well and also know what you need to change and improve. You set your goals one by one on every specific matter.

Male SMV also relies heavily on criteria which cannot be measured, like confidence and social abilities.

I really recommend getting rid of thinking inside the box.

Disclaimer: I also don't believe in any system to rate women except 0 or 1. 1 = Would fuck, 0 = Eww.

On top I believe that rating yourself is often a comfortable excuse to avoid approaching specific women by telling yourself that they are out of your league.

If you want some self-awareness and goals, think about what differentiates you from the masses and develope these things to become the best in your field and define and find your target group.

Find an image for yourself. i.e. the outlaw biker, the smart entepreneur, the aloof dandy, the excentric artist, whatever matches your interests and your personality. Then develope and bring this image to a perfection. I am not talking about the pua-"fake it til you make it"-approach here, but becoming genuine. Don't try to become someone different, but just the best possible version of who and what you are.

kingofpoplives · 2014-09-19T15:56:52+00:00

With women, the medium is the message.

How easy is it for you to get commitment free sex? Have you had many one night stands and casual fuck buddies? How hot are the girls you typically bang?

If women are eager to have sex with you, your SMV is relatively high. How high depends on how hot the women are you usually get.

Title	How can we quantify our SMV
Author	PlebDestroyer
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	September 18, 2014 8:44 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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